Portuguesa Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 i dont understand why you guys are telling us what's what! if girls say they prefer something over something else then thats that... why do stats have to do with it? i love a good sense of humour. i'm a sarcastic person so if a guy can take my jokes and dish them out to me then i think thats amazing. i like a similar personality to me in all honesty, that whole 'opposites attract' doesnt work imo... looks are important i mean, you have to be attracted to your partner, but you can love someones personality so much to just grow to love their looks too! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ez_c Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 It's because the girls on this site say things that are at odds with what the girls we meet in real life do. If girls everywhere were the exactly the same, we wouldn't have this problem. (Note to guys: see how I blamed it all on them?) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 ^ I agree if everyone was the same we wouldn't have this problem, lucky us we all have a brain to think and to make decisions with . But it's not just girls... it's guys also but that's not the topic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
red_ed Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 Give it up people. Girls are stupid. Guys are stupid. Ed is not Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 ^ hahaha You wish :trout: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
red_ed Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 You see through all my lies It is true... teh ed is stupid and what do I appreciate in a guy? I appreciate guy love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 At least your not stupid by yourself were all here with you I've seen that video before :| Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
red_ed Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 it's still funny though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irenistiQ Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 (Y) girls (Y) boys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 Of course it is Now post another one Ed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SympathysSilhouette Posted January 8, 2008 Share Posted January 8, 2008 My main problem is that if the women in here are telling the truth, somewhere between 1/3 and 1/2 of all women we meet would be mostly interested in kindness. I think you'll find most men will tell you their experiences about the matter are slightly different. That is all.I have no problem admitting that physical appearance is an important factor in determining if someone is a potential gf or not. It's probably the single most important thing upon first meeting someone, and then gradually becomes less important, but I doubt it ever leaves anyone's top two or three. Now, of course most people won't stay with a person who is good-looking but has a shitty personality. However, people who are quite the opposite don't even get dates! Think about it, how many attractive jerks do you know who have trouble getting dates? Now, how many sweet unattractive people do you know who couldn't get a date if it saved their life? Now, if most people didn't think looks were all that important, how can that be? Shouldn't the attractive jerks be the ones sitting at home alone and the sweet ugly people getting all the attention? Now we all know that isn't true, and that is simply because most people, both men and women, have physical attractiveness as the most or one of the most important requirements for their gf/bf. Will a nice good-looking guy be more successful than a mean good-looking guy? Sure. But both of those guys will be more popular with the opposite sex than a kind ugly guy. It's just the way we are wired. And I don't understand why so many people deny that this very important aspect is equally important to them as it is to 99% of the people out there. Trust me people. If 50% of all people wanted nothing more than kindness from their partner, the world would be a very different place indeed. Right now, we're still stuck in the phase where we'll end up with the most attractive person we can drag back to our cave. Kindness is a plus, not the our core requirement. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jvsjvs Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 Hmmmm id definitely appreciate the one who is(has)Is cleverKeeping his word/promisePower ( not necessarily physical, more like inner strength)TrustworthyIs responisble for his words and actionsKnows how to treat a womanCourageousof course, if he has good looks, its definitely a bonus hehehe but not crucial. More important then just cute looks is that sexual attraction as well... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azgirl Posted February 3, 2008 Share Posted February 3, 2008 Amen BeckyGood looking can be a bonus, but there is a lot more important things than that.Have you seen how many unattractive men are with gorgeous women. I work in an idustry that sees lots of people mostly couples and looks are not number 1. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SympathysSilhouette Posted February 3, 2008 Share Posted February 3, 2008 Amen BeckyGood looking can be a bonus, but there is a lot more important things than that. Have you seen how many unattractive men are with gorgeous women. I work in an idustry that sees lots of people mostly couples and looks are not number 1. $$$$$$$$$ or €€€€€€€€€€€€ or £££££££££££ Depending where you are at. Ask yourself this, how many unattractive poor guys have you seen with gorgeous women? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jman Posted February 3, 2008 Share Posted February 3, 2008 My main problem is that if the women in here are telling the truth, somewhere between 1/3 and 1/2 of all women we meet would be mostly interested in kindness. I think you'll find most men will tell you their experiences about the matter are slightly different. That is all.I have no problem admitting that physical appearance is an important factor in determining if someone is a potential gf or not. It's probably the single most important thing upon first meeting someone, and then gradually becomes less important, but I doubt it ever leaves anyone's top two or three. Now, of course most people won't stay with a person who is good-looking but has a shitty personality. However, people who are quite the opposite don't even get dates! Think about it, how many attractive jerks do you know who have trouble getting dates? Now, how many sweet unattractive people do you know who couldn't get a date if it saved their life? Now, if most people didn't think looks were all that important, how can that be? Shouldn't the attractive jerks be the ones sitting at home alone and the sweet ugly people getting all the attention? Now we all know that isn't true, and that is simply because most people, both men and women, have physical attractiveness as the most or one of the most important requirements for their gf/bf. Will a nice good-looking guy be more successful than a mean good-looking guy? Sure. But both of those guys will be more popular with the opposite sex than a kind ugly guy. It's just the way we are wired. And I don't understand why so many people deny that this very important aspect is equally important to them as it is to 99% of the people out there. Trust me people. If 50% of all people wanted nothing more than kindness from their partner, the world would be a very different place indeed. Right now, we're still stuck in the phase where we'll end up with the most attractive person we can drag back to our cave. Kindness is a plus, not the our core requirement. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mbinebri Posted February 3, 2008 Share Posted February 3, 2008 Amen BeckyGood looking can be a bonus, but there is a lot more important things than that. Have you seen how many unattractive men are with gorgeous women. I work in an idustry that sees lots of people mostly couples and looks are not number 1. $$$$$$$$$ or €€€€€€€€€€€€ or £££££££££££ Depending where you are at. Ask yourself this, how many unattractive poor guys have you seen with gorgeous women? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azgirl Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 Amen BeckyGood looking can be a bonus, but there is a lot more important things than that.Have you seen how many unattractive men are with gorgeous women. I work in an idustry that sees lots of people mostly couples and looks are not number 1. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mbinebri Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 Unattractive toothless poor men with model-like women? I can't wait for Herve to see this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SympathysSilhouette Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 Unattractive toothless poor men with model-like women? I can't wait for Herve to see this. Sure, haven't you ever seen them? There's lots of them out there. They even have their own jackets and a secret handshake. UTPMWMLM is one hell of a special interest group! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mbinebri Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 ^ You know, I heard what the secret is of these unattractive toothless poor men to landing model-like women... Kindness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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