3 hours ago, Miss Bathory said:

He blocked me too. LOL 

lol... He hate us.

1 hour ago, jamiya said:

lol... He hate us.

 

There is gonna be alot of people who he gonna hate lol, because his role in her life is spilling into alot of areas of her life that it shouldn't and I am sure alot of people are disturbed lol

When he met her aunt? He stayed in Miami less than 1 week, at the american beauty star party he wasn't there anymore... and when he was there (I think) Adriana was on stories at the middle of the night and when she filmed he wasn't there... like they see each other very few times... And none of her family follow him, just her cousin who is a surfer and call everyone brother lol

 

They met just 6 MONTHS ago, they live in differents COUNTRIES and look what he already done?! And in such a short period she unfollowed him so many times....even deleted the photos

 

But I'm still shocked how easy is to Adriana to call a guy the love of her life, her everything, her life..jesus this is problematic

 

 

20 minutes ago, Sophie20 said:

When he met her aunt? He stayed in Miami less than 1 week, at the american beauty star party he wasn't there anymore... and when he was there (I think) Adriana was on stories at the middle of the night and when she filmed he wasn't there... like they see each other very few times... And none of her family follow him, just her cousin who is a surfer and call everyone brother lol

 

They met just 6 MONTHS ago, they live in differents COUNTRIES and look what he already done?! And in such a short period she unfollowed him so many times....even deleted the photos

 

But I'm still shocked how easy is to Adriana to call a guy the love of her life, her everything, her life..jesus this is problematic

 

 

Sorry but it's not because she filmed a video at her house where we can't see him that he's not there. That's kind of a weird assumption to make. I think in general Adriana moves way too fast when it comes to relationships, but in the end, she's a grown woman who can do whatever she wants. It's her life. I do think though that she shouldn't post things like this in such a vague way. Can she post these things or decide not to go nude/partially nude anymore for an "empty cause"? Absolutely, just do it in a more professional manner and people wouldn't be so confused. I do wonder though what an "empty cause" for her means because it could literally mean anything. VS? Love magazine? What? I know she can't really write very well in English but I'm sure someone she knows could maybe write it for her and help her with it if that's all she wanted to say. 

11 hours ago, Souled-Out said:

To me him liking pics about them as a couple, under a post that is supposed to be about ADRIANA and her CAREER decisions says something. And its bad. And the fact that he is so anal about the comments in general.

 

Every person who knows about turkish culture aren't that surprised about any of this. They know of men who will manipulate women like this. And they know their culture is not progressive. They are the opposite of feminist almost. And that makes sense because remember when adriana was getting heat from being a VS model by some turkish people.

 

And now after how many years Adriana is picking and choosing when to take her clothes off. SMH eventually Adriana just won't be doing it anymore and just won't even be the same. It is so crazy she does not realize that she is doing a 180 degree on her personal own way of thinking. Watch her go from being what she think is a "feminist", to sexist and extremely "traditional" if he keeps "guiding her" . She is a fool if she let a man do that to her. Becoming somebody she wasn't. Looking in the mirror and won't even recognize herself.

 

This VS shit should be the least of her fans worries right now. We have to hope Adriana is in the right state of her mind

 

Have been living in Turkey for half a year and this is so sad but I agree, that's the vibe I'm getting. 

 

9 hours ago, fieldofoptics said:

 

I agree with this 100%. It's very weird that he does nothing except patrol his Instagram for comments all day. It's true that if what was being said was untrue then it wouldn't bother him but what's even more than that is that he's like waiting and monitoring. It's like he's getting so much validation from the comments praising him and acknowledging them as a couple but he is so fast to monitor. Creepy. 

 

Another thing I really don't like is that there are some comments left by Turkish people that are saying word for word "Good work Metin. You're teaching Adriana how to act right" or comments about how he's showing her how a woman should be. 

 

Get the fuck out of here! I'm so embarrassed for her and simultaneously worried. 

This makes me extremely angry. 

 

Disturbed and shook bc of both of yours comments. Already had this feeling about the time she's been with Metin but you put it into words perfectly. 

 

3 hours ago, *Luna* said:

Sorry but it's not because she filmed a video at her house where we can't see him that he's not there. That's kind of a weird assumption to make. I think in general Adriana moves way too fast when it comes to relationships, but in the end, she's a grown woman who can do whatever she wants. It's her life. I do think though that she shouldn't post things like this in such a vague way. Can she post these things or decide not to go nude/partially nude anymore for an "empty cause"? Absolutely, just do it in a more professional manner and people wouldn't be so confused. I do wonder though what an "empty cause" for her means because it could literally mean anything. VS? Love magazine? What? I know she can't really write very well in English but I'm sure someone she knows could maybe write it for her and help her with it if that's all she wanted to say. 

 

To the first point, of course she can do whatever she wants. I don't get the sense that anyone that has been criticizing her relationship with Metin or saying that it's too soon to fall in love wants to try and ban her from being able to do so or is trying to slut shame her for doing so. It seems like the concern is about what pain is brought onto her by falling for the wrong type of guy so easily and so quickly, and then making decisions that impact her life negatively on the basis of it but seem to not impact the man she's dating in the same negative way. I could be wrong about how others have reacted on here in the past. This is just my sense.

 

I agree with the second part. If she doesn't want to do nudity even if she has done nudity in the past. Good for her. I don't think it's necessary or smart to really post that announcement on instagram because as a lingerie model it seems kind of dumb and is inviting a lot of hate but if she feels empowered by it and feels strongly about posting it then ok sure, why not? The problem like you said was her lack of professionalism. I also think another problem is that she thinks that everyone should just assume that she meant nudity or she didn't think of it at all. Because the one word she never used in her post is "nude" or "nudity". The only description she gives for what prompted this movie or what she won't be doing is "taking off her clothes for an empty cause" and at the start she describes being asked to participate in "Sexy videos". Well, her entire career with VS revolves around taking sexy videos. That part does not really make a distinction between VS or the love advent like people are saying it's about. And agree with the "empty cause". Very subjective? Basically it gives the public the right to assume what they assumed her to mean (which is silly of her to allow). Most people would think that taking off your clothes to shoot lingerie for LOVE magazine is not different than doing it for VS.

 

So like Souled-Out pointed out, if she isn't retiring I think there will be backlash. If she posts a picture in lingerie from VS, she's going to get tons of comments mocking her. And it won't matter that it's not from LOVE. I'm not saying she needs to care about this I'm just pointing out that it seems like she created a pretty bad situation for herself in terms of PR. Whichever way she goes, she looks bad. That part doesn't sit well with me because I think despite her lack of professionalism she obviously meant well and meant to help empower women by kind of saying "hey... I go through this too. F society." I think those on this board feel the biggest problem is that it is pretty difficult to see how this is a decision she truly wants and is not fueled by  Metin.

I didn’t get what makes you all think it was metin’s fault since he proudly Said he is happy with his gf being a lingerie model. 

3 hours ago, *Luna* said:

Sorry but it's not because she filmed a video at her house where we can't see him that he's not there. That's kind of a weird assumption to make. I think in general Adriana moves way too fast when it comes to relationships, but in the end, she's a grown woman who can do whatever she wants. It's her life. I do think though that she shouldn't post things like this in such a vague way. Can she post these things or decide not to go nude/partially nude anymore for an "empty cause"? Absolutely, just do it in a more professional manner and people wouldn't be so confused. I do wonder though what an "empty cause" for her means because it could literally mean anything. VS? Love magazine? What? I know she can't really write very well in English but I'm sure someone she knows could maybe write it for her and help her with it if that's all she wanted to say. 

I didn't say that...what I said is if i barely saw my bf and he is in my house I could not be in ig at the middle the night... he was not at the party, everyone filmed that and he wasn't there already, he stayes less than 1 week...

I don't know what kind of relationship they have, and of course she can do whatever she wants, but everything has consequences.. the fact is she is all the time saying "thank you" to him, he isn't just a bf he is her spiritual teacher and to me is very clear he talked to her about her post

39 minutes ago, ramires said:

I didn’t get what makes you all think it was metin’s fault since he proudly Said he is happy with his gf being a lingerie model. 

Well he certainly isn’t going to admit to whatever his true feelings are. ??‍♀️

I absolutely adore Adriana, but if she leaves now, in this way, because of sick boyfriend, I'm loosing all my respect to her. She could have been a supermodel and now it could all collapse because of what?? If by 'empty cause' she consideres VS, she should leave, cuz they are feeding you girl and if it's because of LOVE advent, she should have kept her mouth shut. Taylor Hill did it, so does that mean that Taylor is worse than Adriana? NO. Really dissapointed.

1 hour ago, ramires said:

I didn’t get what makes you all think it was metin’s fault since he proudly Said he is happy with his gf being a lingerie model. 

When?

12 minutes ago, Ann11 said:

I absolutely adore Adriana, but if she leaves now, in this way, because of sick boyfriend, I'm loosing all my respect to her. She could have been a supermodel and now it could all collapse because of what?? If by 'empty cause' she consideres VS, she should leave, cuz they are feeding you girl and if it's because of LOVE advent, she should have kept her mouth shut. Taylor Hill did it, so does that mean that Taylor is worse than Adriana? NO. Really dissapointed.

 

What? What are you talking about? Who said Taylor is worse than Adriana because of LOVE advent?? No one said such a thing. Have you really read her post? she just expressed her position, she never criticize anyone. 

This news is now everywhere...even Vogue... I really hope this time she or her agency clear up what she meant. 
If she is truly ending her career as a lingerie model this just a stupid way to do it. I am truly disappointed that she can be so easily influenced... 

19 minutes ago, mjmarija said:

This news is now everywhere...even Vogue... I really hope this time she or her agency clear up what she meant. 
If she is truly ending her career as a lingerie model this just a stupid way to do it. I am truly disappointed that she can be so easily influenced... 

 

And the page six headline is going to fuel the negative spin in headlines (like page six always does)

 

https://pagesix.com/2017/12/11/adriana-lima-needs-a-really-good-reason-to-get-naked-from-now-on/

 

"adriana needs a really good reason to get naked from now on"

 

Giving weight to all the commentary about how she decides after 18 years to condemn an industry that she got rich from. Oh boy. I hope she starts damage control today. 

28 minutes ago, jamiya said:

 

What? What are you talking about? Who said Taylor is worse than Adriana because of LOVE advent?? No one said such a thing. Have you really read her post? she just expressed her position, she never criticize anyone. 

I'm sorry for wrong use of words, English is not my first language. What I meant was that, she called it 'empty cause', if she was reffering to it, so in some way she was bashing it. Maybe it wasn't about LOVE advent, but whatever part of modeling she was reffering to, it's not okay to call it 'empty cause'. If she decided to change or stop modeling, or whatever, great. But just because you don't like it, don't say if others are doing it's wrong. 

7 minutes ago, fieldofoptics said:

 

And the page six headline is going to fuel the negative spin in headlines (like page six always does)

 

https://pagesix.com/2017/12/11/adriana-lima-needs-a-really-good-reason-to-get-naked-from-now-on/

It’s unclear exactly what prompted Lima’s change of heart, but it’s possible she was influenced by her latest love, Turkish writer Metin Hara, to whom she’s been linked since June.

Hara reposted Lima’s missive, captioning the message, “Each soul on the path of awakening carries a great burden in his/her heart… The dream for a better world… For one, for all.”

 

A rep for the stunner did not immediately return a request for comment.

1 hour ago, Ann11 said:

I absolutely adore Adriana, but if she leaves now, in this way, because of sick boyfriend, I'm loosing all my respect to her. She could have been a supermodel and now it could all collapse because of what?? If by 'empty cause' she consideres VS, she should leave, cuz they are feeding you girl and if it's because of LOVE advent, she should have kept her mouth shut. Taylor Hill did it, so does that mean that Taylor is worse than Adriana? NO. Really dissapointed.

Agree

So people are saying vs is shaming adriana because of the caption they wrote on the new picture of Sara they just posted  ???

 

https://imgur.com/gallery/PzyrE

 

I think this theory is ridiculous but so many think this...

VS fans seriously need to shut up and wait. I don't agree with what Adriana said and I think she was influenced, but VS fans are doing the most and they don't even know if its true. How hard can it be to wait it out after two days? We literally don't know and it turns out Adriana's social media activity was nothing unusual anyway. They need to WAIT. It may take awhile but at the end of the day, all they have are their own assumptions, everybody should remember that.

9 minutes ago, fieldofoptics said:

So people are saying vs is shaming adriana because of the caption they wrote on the new picture of Sara they just posted  ???

 

https://imgur.com/gallery/PzyrE

 

I think this theory is ridiculous but so many think this...

Why?