2 minutes ago, Souled-Out said:

Who is David? 

 

I think she is delusional about being a strong, independent woman who wants a better man. She just wants a man. And its clear as day that she has snapped and is not strong right now. 

 

I think its usual for her to not be single long. But never has it ever been this quick. And her relationships in the past has lasted longer than these days... Idk her or what all goes on, but I feel she has made a switch. A bad one at that. She changed, In more ways than one too. And now not even her biggest supporters can take it. 

 

She let everybody including herself down, whether she believs it or not 

 

The user that told me about it posts on here often! So hopefully she'll see this and provide more insight. I'm not personally sure exactly who he is except I was told that he is her cousin. There was someone in Brazil that gave insight into this fight, and Adriana unfollowed david on instagram and stopped talking to him completely. (If I am getting this story wrong, which I probably am, please correct me!)

 

I agree. She always posts these quotes about being strong and independent and what a man should be and etc. But right now it seems like she's settling with anyone that is somewhat high profile and wants to be with her. It's super disappointing. I know how long you and others on this website have been fans. I haven't followed her career for as long but I'm pretty disappointed so I can only imagine. It's kind of a let down. Most of my friends clown me for being such a huge fan of a model and are always like 'she's a model, literally, just a model, why do you care so much'. But really much of the enjoyment of following her career has been being able to see how she differs from most models and has a large personality and tries to highlight what's *actually* important. But it seems now like it's just talking points, and there is some credibility to the assertion that she's kind of dim.

 

Just now, Mo- said:

@Yemen I haven't seen the video and I refuse to look at it just because I want to leave it and partially because I am embarrassed myself.

I do think this is a reality check to me at least. I haven't been here for the things that happened before like everyone has stated not being surprised and all, well I am surprised and totally shocked because I see this for the first time. Plus this indeed made me realize a lot of stuff and It's not important to tell that all right now. 

I am just openly shocked and showing that I am really dissapointed I guess, I hate it but this really changed my thoughts on her, not as a model but as the person she showed and thought she was.

 

 

 

I hear you. I feel like we've spent the entire day saying the same thing over and over today but I really am shocked because of what Souled-Out pointed out, yes it's typical behavior, but this fast? Insane.

I agree with you all!!! SHOCKED is the word here!!! I think she's showing her true self and I don't want see this anymore

this is my first time posting here,i was following adriana for some years but i do think it's weird how you judge someone on their personal relationships.She isn't strong because she moved on?Was she the one that made the first move on him?You will probably never know for sure when it comes to celebrity relationships.To me it doesn't make her suddenly a slut or a bad person like you all are pointing out.You don't know her,you don't know what she may or may not be going through,if she is very naive when it comes to men(i personally believe that).I follow her because of her looks and how she acts and that a lot of people that met her say great things about her,rarely a bad story about her.I do think women as well as men can do what they wan't after a break up as long as it doesn't involve alcohol or drugs or other bad behavior.I never called a woman a slut for moving on ,just because they kiss doesn't mean they have sex.I have met couples that kissed but after a year they decided to have sex.Her publicist said that she and julian broke up before the oscars if i am not mistaken,so i don't consider this fast (although i don't know when did they hook up,maybe it was today or a week ago).Anyway hope you don't take this message the wrong way:)

5 minutes ago, morpheu said:

this is my first time posting here,i was following adriana for some years but i do think it's weird how you judge someone on their personal relationships.She isn't strong because she moved on?Was she the one that made the first move on him?You will probably never know for sure when it comes to celebrity relationships.To me it doesn't make her suddenly a slut or a bad person like you all are pointing out.You don't know her,you don't know what she may or may not be going through,if she is very naive when it comes to men(i personally believe that).I follow her because of her looks and how she acts and that a lot of people that met her say great things about her,rarely a bad story about her.I do think women as well as men can do what they wan't after a break up as long as it doesn't involve alcohol or drugs or other bad behavior.I never called a woman a slut for moving on ,just because they kiss doesn't mean they have sex.I have met couples that kissed but after a year they decided to have sex.Her publicist said that she and julian broke up before the oscars if i am not mistaken,so i don't consider this fast (although i don't know when did they hook up,maybe it was today or a week ago).Anyway hope you don't take this message the wrong way:)

I couldn't have said it better. Totally agree.

i posted more pics of them from daiymail on candids. Even comments there are most time crazy, about Adriana people commented only good Things but now it turned bad. Hate too read Things like she gets around. or if she will cheer now on the baseball games this year.

15 minutes ago, morpheu said:

this is my first time posting here,i was following adriana for some years but i do think it's weird how you judge someone on their personal relationships.She isn't strong because she moved on?Was she the one that made the first move on him?You will probably never know for sure when it comes to celebrity relationships.To me it doesn't make her suddenly a slut or a bad person like you all are pointing out.You don't know her,you don't know what she may or may not be going through,if she is very naive when it comes to men(i personally believe that).I follow her because of her looks and how she acts and that a lot of people that met her say great things about her,rarely a bad story about her.I do think women as well as men can do what they wan't after a break up as long as it doesn't involve alcohol or drugs or other bad behavior.I never called a woman a slut for moving on ,just because they kiss doesn't mean they have sex.I have met couples that kissed but after a year they decided to have sex.Her publicist said that she and julian broke up before the oscars if i am not mistaken,so i don't consider this fast (although i don't know when did they hook up,maybe it was today or a week ago).Anyway hope you don't take this message the wrong way:)

 

If you think that ANYONE on this forum that is a fan of hers is calling her a "slut" you would be incorrect. Most of us have conceded to the idea that it is inappropriate to hold men and women to a different standard, and I've even gone on to say, if she's looking to have sex with several different men a night, it's on her. What has disappointed most of her fans is that she is a person that puts herself on a pedestal as being the pillar of integrity and values as it relates to men and being independent from them. Most of the people on here have been fans of hers for over half a decade. Surely they aren't upset by something so frivolous as sex. I disagree with your premise of even having to point out 'just because they kiss doesn't mean they have sex', who cares? None of us have said we would be more or less disappointed based on whether she has sex with him or not. That is not the issue. I know you didn't intend to, but please don't conflate the reason why people are disappointed with this accusation of our being taken back by her having sex or not having sex with another person.

1 hour ago, morpheu said:

this is my first time posting here,i was following adriana for some years but i do think it's weird how you judge someone on their personal relationships.She isn't strong because she moved on?Was she the one that made the first move on him?You will probably never know for sure when it comes to celebrity relationships.To me it doesn't make her suddenly a slut or a bad person like you all are pointing out.You don't know her,you don't know what she may or may not be going through,if she is very naive when it comes to men(i personally believe that).I follow her because of her looks and how she acts and that a lot of people that met her say great things about her,rarely a bad story about her.I do think women as well as men can do what they wan't after a break up as long as it doesn't involve alcohol or drugs or other bad behavior.I never called a woman a slut for moving on ,just because they kiss doesn't mean they have sex.I have met couples that kissed but after a year they decided to have sex.Her publicist said that she and julian broke up before the oscars if i am not mistaken,so i don't consider this fast (although i don't know when did they hook up,maybe it was today or a week ago).Anyway hope you don't take this message the wrong way:)

Look. Its me. I am known to be a big Adriana fan. I don't want to have to criticize her if I don't have to. It is to the point where I am literally speechless on defending her, its not right to. Somebody is giving her shit for this, I can't blame them.

 

But this isn't healthy. Nobody is perfect. Everybody has weaknesses. And even though Adriana is known to be nice and have a good heart, and I still believe that.Because literally nobody says otherwise... But When it comes to her personal life and relationship, she is damn near reckless.

 

I personally think that when you go through a divorce anyway, and then two break ups. You should have time to yourself. Especially when you are in Adriana's situation. Screw her age. She has two kids. Everytime, she finds her a man to be with, she has to invest time to spend with them. Two weeks after breaking up with someone, she is with someone else, and now has to invest that time into being with them.... Thats time she can be with her kids. Its being taken away because she is just quickly going from one guy to another. I don't mind her taking time to be with a guy as long as its atleast worth it and serious.

 

But its clearly not in this case. Because she is fresh out of another relationship.

 

I get it, I have been a big fan of Adriana myself. Yes, she is beautiful, inside and out. But something wrong when it comes to her relationship life and its gonna give her a bad reputation. People are trashing her like hell. She has gotten herself into some bad shit.

@yemen You probably have a different pedestal for her than i do.As i said i don't see anything bad with her moving on if she truly is over julian.Again i don't know her,i don't know if she is over him  or maybe matt is her knight in shining armour but after a break up a woman is usually more vulnerable ,and she strikes me as one that puts a lot of emotion into alot of stuff including relationships.Maybe this matt guy will be more serious than the other,who knows.I made a point that somebody made her a slut on instagram because of all of this.I failed to mention that in my post

 

@Souled-Out-well yes i aggree that she makes bad decisions relationship wise(i made ,many people do,it's life) but that does not make her a bad person or a bad mother.I think she met julian mostly when her schedule alowed it to be(when she had work in new york).I mean long distance doesn't work out most of the times no matter how gorgeous or rich you are.Both parties need to have patience with each other(a lot of it) and since he is with the pats he would not have moved to miami so she needed to make the move.And because of long distance and not seeing each other that much it was kinda obvious to me that it would never work since she has said in an interview i think that she doesn't have a lot of patience.And with this matt guy is with the new york mets.I again think that this won't last long.Athletes don't always have a say when they wan't to play or to what team unless you are a superstar but most athletes wan't wives or girlfriends  that usually stay with the kids while they are on the road playing or dedicate time to them when they are home Gisele and Tom are a rare exception.It doesn't matter how much time she spends with the kids but is that quality time and from IG and what her kids do like write cards for her ,i think that she is spending quality time with them.I also saw that she doesn't have that many hobies other that going out from time to time with friends(working out is for her carreer right now).She mostly stays with the kids,she did say a lot of times that she is behind on tv series and that she used to paint a long time ago ,so by not having many hobbies at home and what her kids write to her makes me think that she is a good mother.And to your own words "I don't mind her taking time to be with a guy as long as its atleast worth it and serious".Well time will tell on that.I just hope she will find someone and be happy.Focusing a lot on her carreer and kids at the age of 35 makes it difficult to say the least,but maybe she will get lucky.

 

I disagree. I feel like logic such as that, is what probably allows for Adriana to think this stuff is ok.

 

She's being trashed for this.She has legit lost alot of respect in so many people's eyes, even my own. And you know its bad when I don't care to defend her or to even be angry about it. She could be putting this focus on her kids more atleast and obviously herself. That was her chance.

It's not like she was together 24/7 with julian  because more pictures of them would eventually come out and yet very phew are out there.To me it is ok to move on,if she is over him then why not.Her publicist said that conflicting schedules made them broke up,so maybe the question of will you move here with me to make this more serious came about and julian said no because he is with the pats and adriana said no too.And i stick by my comment,this doesn't make her a bad mother to me.She will spend more time with matt now because the mets have a training facility in florida and it's the offseason,so after the 2nd of april he is back in new york and long distance will probably not work out AGAIN.I wished she just moves to LA or New York but she probably won't because she doesn't wan't to move her kids around at a young age and that she likes the weather in miami and privacy since not many paparazzi are there.And if someone is being trashed for something,it does not make the trash right,she is being called far worse then what was written here.I don't question if you are a fan of her,i know you are,it is about what you think she did wrong or right here.I don't think it's wrong that she moved on.The staple that women who move on fast because they are desperate or don't care about their kids is not always true to me.

Its not about the julian stuff, is the thing. I felt like it was ok for her to put the time aside she had for him, because they had known each other for a while them. Even though, I thought it was stupid she cancelled a paid event she was supposed to go to, to do something with Julian's mom. But generally, its cool because she had been seeing julian a while

 

But this guy? We all know damn well she hasn't known him long. And we all know damn well, it wasn't too long ago Adriana was with Julian. That is the time I am talking about that could have been spent with herself and her family. I am sure she is being called worse every where else because people here are usually fans of her. Alot of people don't know much about her. All they see know is a 35 year old model who lets men have an impact on her and her life, no matter how short of a time she has been with them.

 

Go back to her last 4 relationships and one way of another, Adriana has let it and those men control her and eventually ruin her in some bad way. The divorce with Marko literally had her looking her least best, When she was with joe because he was a bigger and sloppier person pre-weight loss, she began to get like that too (remember people kept asking if she was pregnant), with Julian, she cancelled a paid event to bond with his mom, and now this guy. IDK him or much about him but this just caused Adriana to have respect lost from fans and non fans.

Some of this could have been avoided if she did what a sensible person would do and focus on more important things and thats personal healing and possible self-evaluation and more time with her family.

 

Agree to disagree.

her familly is in brazil right?mostly i saw her cousin in miami.Maybe she moved on quicker because of the relationship being long distance and that none of them wanted to move to another city,maybe it was easier for her to move on.At the end of the day her instagram subscribers and vs status makes her carreer what it is,nowadays its the norm in fashion anyway.Most follow her because she is a model and from what she posts on IG,most don't really care about her relationship status.Haters will always pounce on somebody no matter who he or she is when it comes to dating,remember when she was with julian and a lot were calling her going for the money and fame when she had more money and more fame.I don't measure respect for someone based on their dating past.I did say that women are usually more vulnerable after a break up so it would also make sense if she moved on quickly if the guy knew what words to say,i doubt that she made the first move.Maybe this will end well or not,time will tell.I think they will break up because she won't move to new york and he is with the mets so he won't move to miami.I do wonder what her friends and family are telling her.And do understand after a divorce and 2 breakups she is very vulnerable,you need friends and family to guide you there,no matter how strong or independent you are.Either she is over him or that she is vulnerable and saw matt being the savior.I hope it ends well for her

1 hour ago, morpheu said:

her familly is in brazil right?mostly i saw her cousin in miami.Maybe she moved on quicker because of the relationship being long distance and that none of them wanted to move to another city,maybe it was easier for her to move on.At the end of the day her instagram subscribers and vs status makes her carreer what it is,nowadays its the norm in fashion anyway.Most follow her because she is a model and from what she posts on IG,most don't really care about her relationship status.Haters will always pounce on somebody no matter who he or she is when it comes to dating,remember when she was with julian and a lot were calling her going for the money and fame when she had more money and more fame.I don't measure respect for someone based on their dating past.I did say that women are usually more vulnerable after a break up so it would also make sense if she moved on quickly if the guy knew what words to say,i doubt that she made the first move.Maybe this will end well or not,time will tell.I think they will break up because she won't move to new york and he is with the mets so he won't move to miami.I do wonder what her friends and family are telling her.And do understand after a divorce and 2 breakups she is very vulnerable,you need friends and family to guide you there,no matter how strong or independent you are.Either she is over him or that she is vulnerable and saw matt being the savior.I hope it ends well for her

I think its SOMETHING like that. I don't know what exactly it is but its obvious, what ever it is has hit her like this mess hit us, hard. Looking at that footage of them Adriana looks so out of it and honestly unhappy. I don't know where her head is but I hope she can finally get it together and somehow recover from this mess.

 

Because this is obviously somebody not happy and def not making the best decisions for herself.

 

 

These  are the signs of depression, you all know right?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/usshowbiz/video-1430771/Matt-Harvey-Adriana-Lima-caught-kissing-Miami.html

she looks fine to me.Take a picture out of a video and it seems that way but it's not always the case.What mess are you reffering to ?Julian?

If it is ,she bounced back after marko and joe.She will be fine.Her real friends and family need to step in if that is the case.

1 hour ago, duhampi said:

These  are the signs of depression, you all know right?

 

exactly. You can tell she isn't emotionally attached

19 minutes ago, duhampi said:

These  are the signs of depression, you all know right?

I'm with you, she is clearly suffering, even if she acts happy on the outside. Her actions speak for her.

I saw her IG comments. Alot of them were fair actually ( I am sure on the dailymail she did get alot of hate, even though she used to be a favorite there. And people there were happy FOR her, because she was no longer with Julian) 

 

You can tell the critical comments came from REAL fans. Not people just out to bash her. They did call her a hypocrite, they did say she was disappointment and has went against what she preached, but they still wished and hope she was doing ok all I one post. It looks like they can tell something is wrong too but are still rightfully bothered by this shit

I know this picture taken by Paparazzi, But is the position of this photographer a bit too good?

The video has been recorded since they arrived at this restaurant.

I wonder if someone leaked.

1 hour ago, jamiya said:

I know this picture taken by Paparazzi, But is the position of this photographer a bit too good?

The video has been recorded since they arrived at this restaurant.

I wonder if someone leaked.

I don't think so.

 

It wouldn't be the first time she was recorded from start to finish. She was by tmz in 2008 with her friend jerome. So it could have easily happened again, esp since the julian stuff just stopped. Everytime Adriana is thought to be single, the media is always up on her