@Limerlight

 

I not making fun of you or the Wild, but what's up with the Wild? They are 9 minutes away from going down 3-0.

3 hours ago, Stromboli1 said:

@Limerlight

 

I not making fun of you or the Wild, but what's up with the Wild? They are down 3-0.

FTFY

 

I suspect Dubnyk has a shoulder injury by the lack of movement in his glove shoulder. 

 

The rest just aren't showing up  Suter is playing terrible, not much else to say

15 minutes ago, Limerlight said:

I suspect Dubnyk has a shoulder injury by the lack of movement in his glove shoulder. 

 

The rest just aren't showing up  Suter is playing terrible, not much else to say

 

The Blues have only been the better team for like two periods yet they are up 3-0.

 

In other news the Canucks have the same amount of playoff goals as the Hawks do.  

12 hours ago, Stromboli1 said:

 

Ah the infamous job interview.

 

In your opinion, would you find it unbecoming & ungentlemanly if a guy that you thought was cute asked you to fuck since you don't date? It seems that you would rather be the one to initiate everything, right?

 

I'm more cerebral, so I like to chat women up.

 

Actually I think that a woman has already decided whether or not to sleep with you BEFORE the first or second date.  The dates are just foreplay or space for a woman to reject you, in case of anything else that she detects.

^ That is so not true  Maybe in some cases yeah. But in general? Lol please

 

6 minutes ago, *Luna* said:

^ That is so not true  Maybe in some cases yeah. But in general? Lol please

 

 

Then explain why the date happened in the first place if there was no/little sexual attraction if the entire date was not a ploy to recruit a platonic friend?

6 minutes ago, Cult Icon said:

 

Then explain why the date happened in the first place if there was no/little sexual attraction if the entire date was not a ploy to recruit a platonic friend?

Maybe because some people start out as friends and hang out (or "date", because a lot of people have a different opinion on what dating actually means) and then realize they are attracted to each other? Not everyone walks around thinking "oh yeah I wanna jump in bed with her/him", some maybe do, doesn't mean everyone does or that everything revolves around that.

10 minutes ago, *Luna* said:

Maybe because some people start out as friends and hang out (or "date", because a lot of people have a different opinion on what dating actually means) and then realize they are attracted to each other? Not everyone walks around thinking "oh yeah I wanna jump in bed with her/him", some maybe do, doesn't mean everyone does or that everything revolves around that.

 

Note that I am not talking about religious prudes but people who engage in regular casual sex.

 

Friends -- > relationship does not really happen much in real life.  

 

 This means that there was not much interest in the two in the first place and obviously weak or zero sexual attraction from at least the female.

 

The overwhelming majority of cases, the "male friend" wants to have sex with the female.  Female and male sexuality have significant differences.

 

Basically I think your responses are wrong!

5 minutes ago, Cult Icon said:

 

Note that I am not talking about religious prudes but people who engage in regular casual sex.

 

Friends -- > relationship does not really happen much in real life.  

 

 This means that there was not much interest in the two in the first place and obviously weak sexual attraction from at least the female.

 

The overwhelming majority of cases, the "male friend" wants to have sex with the female.  Female and male sexuality have significant differences.

 

Basically I think your responses are wrong!

Maybe you have had different experiences then. I know people who met each other and were friends for a very long time, before becoming a couple and guess what? They're still together and definitely seem to be much happier than some of the things I have heard about people who jump in bed right after date 1 and then be together for a while (but then eventually break up because it didn't work out, when you ask them why the answer is usually the same, "I feel like I didn't really have an idea of who he/she was and where this relationship was going".)

5 minutes ago, *Luna* said:

Maybe you have had different experiences then. I know people who met each other and were friends for a very long time, before becoming a couple and guess what? They're still together and definitely seem to be much happier than some of the things I have heard about people who jump in bed right after date 1 and then be together for a while (but then eventually break up because it didn't work out, when you ask them why the answer is usually the same, "I feel like I didn't really have an idea of who he/she was and where this relationship was going".)

 

You probably don't know the details of how "friends ---> relationship" because the idealism of the situation sounds implausible to me.  If the woman had low or zero sexual attraction and married her "friend", eg. marriage as a partnership than we are talking about a divorce or a stale marriage after the kids are grown, or before!

 

A marriage or a committed couple cannot thrive without strong sexual attraction.

2 hours ago, Cult Icon said:

 

You probably don't know the details of how "friends ---> relationship" because the idealism of the situation sounds implausible to me.  If the woman had low or zero sexual attraction and married her "friend", eg. marriage as a partnership than we are talking about a divorce or a stale marriage after the kids are grown, or before!

 

A marriage or a committed couple cannot thrive without strong sexual attraction.

What exactly are you trying to say with "you don't know the details of friends -> relationship"?? That I don't know how it works? Lol. Not every friendship OR relationship starts the same, believe it or not. Not all couples their story starts with "they jumped in bed after meeting 10 minutes earlier and they lived happily ever after". This wasn't even about marriage or children, my comment was about it absolutely not being true that a woman always knows BEFORE she even talks to a man if she wants to jump in bed with him or not. Sure it happens, but it definitely isn't the case all the time. 

I am using spoilers for my post because I don't want to bother other members with my life

 

On 16/04/2017 at 4:25 PM, Stromboli1 said:

 

Ah the infamous job interview.

 

In your opinion, would you find it unbecoming & ungentlemanly if a guy that you thought was cute asked you to fuck since you don't date? It seems that you would rather be the one to initiate everything, right?

 

I'm more cerebral, so I like to chat women up.

 

Spoiler

 

I love to chat too, a lot. I am good at listening too.

When I say I don't date I am talking about "conventional" dating like : to go to a dinner or have a drink then maybe going to another dinner and so on till we decide if we like each other or not. And also I hate this stupid ritual : make-up, clothes, doing my hair etc. Usually if  want to know a man I propose him to come over my home (not to fuck!) to get to know each other. And yes, 99% of the men are kind of puzzled but I don't recall one saying no.

 

Spoiler

(and now they are all buried in my yard)

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^^ lol, no If he can't come over right away, I give him a rendez-vous another day usually in the afternoon and I can tell you I do not opening the door all dressed up  Once I was holding a vacuum hose in one hand & holding the dog in another one This was the guy face And after the awkwardness of the situation, we are talking, drinking what I can find in my fridge & getting to know each other exactly like any other date I guess. Once a guy help me to clean my windows and walk the dog with me and we stay together -as a couple- during 1 year.  The only time I had sex with a man after only 10 mnts he was in my place was the love of 5 years of my life.  My friends think I am crazy and that one day I am going to be raped or killed Hopefully, men are not all rapist or serial killers, aren't they?

My second favorite place for a "date" is libraries (yes u can talk in libraries)

So, yes, I date. My own many ways.

 

 

22 hours ago, Cult Icon said:

 

I consider myself an "equalist".  

What do you do other than dating?

 

I like to date but not with woman that are just using the "possibility of sex/platonic friendship" to string me along and get free entertainment, free listening ears, and expensive meals.   I have wasted too much time on that in my life.  I am very aware of how women, especially attractive ones, use men as ego fulfillment by having a bunch of suitors orbiting around them.  By being direct, I feel like I am more honest, and so is she.  It cuts out unnecessary activity.

 

Would you respond well if a man, who you found attractive, came up to you and told you that he was sexually attracted you in the first 5-15 minutes of conversation?

If I am attracted by him I would certainly respond well, yes. I don't mind a man being direct and telling me he wants to have sex with me. Nothing wrong with that.

And yes, you are right, women should pay their own dinner and not let a man pay for them -unless he clearly said he was the one to invite her- but you imply women want to use men for what they can give them & I feel this kind of sad. Maybe you have dated the wrong women? And a woman can also be a "free listening ears" for you? And as for the expensive meal :  And if u ever come to France we will go to Flunch All you can eat for less than 10€! And it's gooood!

1 hour ago, frenchkiki said:

I love to chat too, a lot. I am good at listening too.

 

Still waiting on my PM there madam.

 

Jus' sayin

For real ^^ And I am really bad at PMing and answer PMs Sorry to all of you.

6 hours ago, frenchkiki said:

If I am attracted by him I would certainly respond well, yes. I don't mind a man being direct and telling me he wants to have sex with me. Nothing wrong with that.

And yes, you are right, women should pay their own dinner and not let a man pay for them -unless he clearly said he was the one to invite her- but you imply women want to use men for what they can give them & I feel this kind of sad. Maybe you have dated the wrong women? And a woman can also be a "free listening ears" for you? And as for the expensive meal :  And if u ever come to France we will go to Flunch All you can eat for less than 10€! And it's gooood!

 

 

I am not complaining about paying.  I always pay and would pay for us to go to a better place than that.  I like to eat at expensive restaurants and have expensive entertainment.   I am complaining about women misleading men in order to procure benefits for themselves.  The greatest loss for me is time and wasted emotion/sexual tension.  I believe that what I have said is a rather common tendency, particularly epidemic among women that are attractive and use flirting, kissing, and hugs to secure the ruse.

 

If you do not do this to other men I like you more than I already do .

 

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I am using spoilers for my post because I don't want to bother other members with my life  

 

I am not bothered, because it is about Christy.  

 

 I am bothered when the woman doesn't care about me at all, and just wants to use my time to satisfy her own agendas.  Not long ago a woman wanted to do this just so she could pepper me with questions and get important knowledge/insight from my brain.  I refused her.

from a male pov, a good way is to do the meetup at the man's place, and allow the woman to see where he lives, his personal belongs etc.  I find that this works to develop rapport with BOTH men and women.

18 hours ago, frenchkiki said:

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I love to chat too, a lot. I am good at listening too.

When I say I don't date I am talking about "conventional" dating like : to go to a dinner or have a drink then maybe going to another dinner and so on till we decide if we like each other or not. And also I hate this stupid ritual : make-up, clothes, doing my hair etc. Usually if  want to know a man I propose him to come over my home (not to fuck!) to get to know each other. And yes, 99% of the men are kind of puzzled but I don't recall one saying no.

 

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^^ lol, no If he can't come over right away, I give him a rendez-vous another day usually in the afternoon and I can tell you I do not opening the door all dressed up  Once I was holding a vacuum hose in one hand & holding the dog in another one This was the guy face And after the awkwardness of the situation, we are talking, drinking what I can find in my fridge & getting to know each other exactly like any other date I guess. Once a guy help me to clean my windows and walk the dog with me and we stay together -as a couple- during 1 year.  The only time I had sex with a man after only 10 mnts he was in my place was the love of 5 years of my life.  My friends think I am crazy and that one day I am going to be raped or killed Hopefully, men are not all rapist or serial killers, aren't they?

My second favorite place for a "date" is libraries (yes u can talk in libraries)

So, yes, I date. My own many ways.

 

 

 

I don't like being around a lot people, but I do like learning & listening about cultures from different countries in a small group or one on one setting. I would probably ask you numerous questions about a variety of things. Board game nights are awesome to meet new people and I prefer doing that instead of going out to dinner. I'm kind of ghetto in the sense of doing that dress up & impressing stuff because that's not me at all, doesn't mean I can't do it though.

 

@Cult Icon is going to be buried in your backyard.

 

I probably wouldn't meet someone at their place for starters, a neutral public place would be more preferable. It seems that you are a good judge of character so the men you invite over don't try any shit with you. Women would never to agree to meet guys at their place when they're trying to get to know each other better, sends too many red flags. Rapists & serial killers are usually sexually depraved and that's one of the reasons why they do what they do until they (serial killers) start getting pleasure and thrills from doing their acts. Men would be a lot better off if we didn't think about sex all the time.

 

I haven't been to a public library in a long time. In America usually weirdos only frequent public libraries.

 

That's cool that you date in your own way.

Fuck the Cavs!!!  

13 minutes ago, Stormbringer said:

Fuck the Cavs!!!  

 

+1

5 hours ago, Stromboli1 said:

Men would be a lot better off if we didn't think about sex all the time.

 

I haven't been to a public library in a long time. In America usually weirdos only frequent public libraries.

 

That's cool that you date in your own way.

 

 

I think this is an urban myth.  I believed this myself for a while- but now I believe that women think about sex around as much as men do.  They only hide it better due to social conditioning and fear (more to lose from getting pregant, physically weaker and less physically aggressive).

 

In fact, women's fantasies are far more involved than mine (or men's) have ever been.  Men tend to think of having sex with lots of women and without much depth while female fantasies tend to be more complicated and kinky.