It's so complicated. In one aspect, the media is pushing girls to want to look (and even act like) like super-bimbo-big breasted-and big butted-skanks. On the other end of the spectrum, there is a little inner voice that tells you "I'm fat" whether you are or not... why? I don't know... but most of the girls I have spoken to seriously say they have their "fat" days just as all of them have bad hair" days. I love the look of models; their tight and seemingly flawless skin, height, long and slim limbs, and perfect complection ... but as much as I like it I don't think I would ever get as far as hurting myself to achieve it. If your naturally lke that in a health sort of way then I guess you should be happy and if voluptuous same difference... work with what you've got.