Yeah like you said Foxy, I think Leo made a comment several years ago (I think around 2006 or somewhere there) like that. If Leo has a preference for men could explain why he never took the next step in his relationships. A lot of gay men just simply have an interest in female models. Or maybe he's straight or even bi and just simply hasn't found the one. I'm not kidding myself anymore and strictly believing one thing I don't know Leo, so who knows.
I read somewhere that it only takes a man 3 dates to know if he's in love with a person, for a woman it takes 14 dates. If he's still with Toni I think he'd know by now if she's the one. However, I get this feeling this relationship is staying at the same level, but again I don't know them so I can't say for certain of course. Maybe they talk everyday on the phone and Skype each other on their free time and are madly in love, or maybe the relationship is strictly one of convenience they just hang out when they are in the same city and its nothing serious. That neither one of them goes out of their way to see the other. Well who knows if they are even still together, could be that they're busy schedules is what's keeping them apart, which makes sense as Leo is stuck in Vancouver... but then you'd think Tonk would find atleast a little time to go up there... but it's not like she has to be the one following him all over and squeezing time.
Last year Toni spent Christmas in Germany and Leo in LA, if they are still together it would be interesting to see if the exact same thing happens again. Sorry but if Leo went to Germany to spend time with Toni and her family for Christmas that would shock me because I just don't get the impression that Leo would be willing to make a sacrifice like that! I know they spent News Years together in Mexico of course.
Back to Leo finding love, it seems kinda tricky for someone in his position, as I can imagine it would be kinda hard to trust. You don't know who loves you for you or whose just using you for your fame and trying to advance themselves off of you. Also, most of the people leo is close with are people he knew before Titanic, so it must be hard for anyone new to compare to the kind of relationship he has with those guys. Would have been nice if things had worked out for him and Kristen Zang, she was with him before R&J and Titanic, granted he was still somewhat famous and he had his Oscar nomination already etc but he wasn't a huge star.
Anyways, so many people gush about what a great guy leo is and that he's funny and sweet, so I can imagine it musnt be hard for people to actually fall for Leo legitamitely.
But again how can leo know that for sure.