October 1, 200816 yr Author right now? i really dont know! i'm too independent it seems like i don't need another mouth to feed. if he is financially competent... and would be a great father to my adopted children, Freja and Isolde, then sure... why not.
October 1, 200816 yr Author yes but i might cheat FRANCY! well, the question should be-would you like to be married some day, or sth.... I want to be wife in a future, but I don't know if I'll find a loser man who would like to be my husband
November 29, 200816 yr right now? i really dont know! i'm too independent it seems like i don't need another mouth to feed. if he is financially competent... and would be a great father to my adopted children, Freja and Isolde, then sure... why not.Why did you adopt children when you are single?hahah! i feel like a broken record for some reason! hahah! well its my surefire plan. i just know it.the thought of childbirth terrifies me so. i'm adopting because i know i'll be more than financially competent and if I can save at least one child from prostitution and human trafficking in bulgaria or a boy from becoming a child-soldier in uganda... then i'll know i've done my part.sure its going to amazing and great to have your own flesh and blood, words can't even describe the feeling, but i feel like i would be doing more if i gave an already living child the opportunity of life.and yes, the love shared between a man and a woman (or however you like) is the most amazing thing, don't get me wrong, but being a wife is just so hard.
November 9, 200915 yr right now? i really dont know! i'm too independent it seems like i don't need another mouth to feed. if he is financially competent... and would be a great father to my adopted children, Freja and Isolde, then sure... why not.Why did you adopt children when you are single?hahah! i feel like a broken record for some reason! hahah! well its my surefire plan. i just know it.the thought of childbirth terrifies me so. i'm adopting because i know i'll be more than financially competent and if I can save at least one child from prostitution and human trafficking in bulgaria or a boy from becoming a child-soldier in uganda... then i'll know i've done my part.sure its going to amazing and great to have your own flesh and blood, words can't even describe the feeling, but i feel like i would be doing more if i gave an already living child the opportunity of life.and yes, the love shared between a man and a woman (or however you like) is the most amazing thing, don't get me wrong, but being a wife is just so hard.oh i'm exactely the same.in few years i would like to adopt kids. i often search information on internet, learn about laws, rights, etc my only problem in few countries is the fact i'm "single". i'm not married or engaged and for the moment i'm too young. sometimes i would like have kids but because of my fragile health i'm not sure it's a good idea.just the fact to be pregnant scared me. it's a phobia and in same time because of my blood sickness be pregante could be dangerous for my health and i probably could lose the baby.and when i'm stressed, angry, sad i often lose blood and i can make hemoragies and the only medicament against my hemoragies can kill a normal person. so if i make a angst crisis and an hemoragie and i need to use this medicament i could kill the baby.in same time with all my health problems it's hard to imagine i could have a normal life with a normal family. not every year but no far there is a problem.there are 3 years ago i got a cartillage problem. my legs' catillage destroyed and when i tried to walk, to move it was very very very painful, during months i wasn't able to walk normaly. it was like i had acid in my legs and since this periode now when i walk "too much" (there are few days i walked at the supermarket at 200meter of my building and it was already too much) my legs became very sensitive and doctors say it certainely won't stop and it could "touch" all my body. by the way because of another legs problem i need to pay attention and don't use too much my legs... or i will have the choice between be paralized or have a very big important operation where my legs bones must be destroyed... and this is not sure than they will become normal... i will be obligated to spend months in a bed (without move of course), the two legs in orthopedic casts and because on my Van Willebrand disease it certainly will be longer than few months...after there was my sexual disease who started to be a cancer... i can thank Sarkozy's godson XD but it was my fault.in same time i had anorexiac troubles because of quarrel with an exboyfriend. my fault tooand this year, in june/july, for 3 weeks i had an equilibrium problem, i spent 3 weeks in the bed. the rare times when i left my home i walked like a drunk person. i was lipothymic but i always been a bit lipothymic since years even the winter when it snow i need to open the windows, i use 24/24h a fan, i always need air. i rarely feel the cold and since june it's worst. you can put me in a car i need to be half naked and open all the windows or i feel very very bad and i faint.so everywhere i go in bars, nightclubs, concert hall, i need to be seat in a calme zone or i have problems.so because of it, it's hard for me to imagine i could be married or have kid. i don't want kids or husband as medical assistants.result i don't know what i want.maybe if i was a normal person i could imagine have kids and an husband but i'm not like this so my perception of life is different.
November 9, 200915 yr We will adopt as well or if my girlfriend wants our own then we can have an alternative
November 13, 200915 yr No...but my mama wants me to marry this Asian actress she's really pretty (half american/asian)
November 15, 200915 yr Yes I want to get married someday but not anytime soon. I'm like Buhlack7 childbirth scares the hell out of me so Id rather adopt a child that really needs a home.
November 15, 200915 yr At one time I wanted to marry the "right person" but nowadays.. I would be ok with finding someone to hang with.
November 15, 200915 yr I do want to get married and have that family but at the same time I have the thought in the back of my head thats like why bother you're just going to get divorced. My older sister had the "perfect" guy or so she thought. They got married 2 years passed and now they're divorced. 26 years old and she has already been married once. So I go back and forth with the idea of getting married.
November 15, 200915 yr the answer is still...NO hanging out and having fun is so much more than a paper
October 24, 201212 yr Yes, in fact I've been happily married since 2001 and our Anniversary is coming up this October 25th
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