Watch some of It's Black Friday & Angela's not regular video's but the try on clothing, the different goth styles they do it will make sense, Dita Von Teese as well.
Long version:
What Pretty is saying maybe in a different way to explain it, there are different "types" of goth that are all goth, she leans heavily towards Victorian and Romantic, though of course has respect to traditional goth, steampunk goth as well is amazing.
1st being more Romantic with some Victorian in it, 2nd being Victorian and 3rd being Traditional goth, notice with the first 2 how you get that true Victorian feel and look, corsets, umbrella's clean lines, a little over the top but not too much design and looking lovely as all goth can be. Now the last one is traditional goth, notice the big hair don't care looks, chains etc.. Similar to the punk look but cleaned up IMO, all three are sexy as all hell mind you.
Now myself, I do really like Romantic, Trad and Victorian goth women, however I flow more away from the goth scene at times into the emo scene, heavy makeup no to lots of tattoo's and nightclub wanna dance be free women, and yes as she mentioned before some suicide girls/suicide looking girls:
Star is love star is life, she's not goth though and this is where the misconception is:
Star is Paleish, she does wear black, she likes chains and things of that BUT SHE IS NOT GOTH! You can be all the same things a goth is but not anywhere near goth and that's where the line is. "Whore Makeup" is a bit of an extreme way of saying it, but if you know Pretty that's her thing so I'll leave that
As you see, Tattoo's, 3/4 girls are paler, but they are not anywhere close to goth, especially #2 Lauren, she's more of the nightclub go party type of women. Pretty generally does not like these women and mentions is quite frequently (goth's aside for a second) this is also the basis for skinny vs fuller yada yada yada.
The border one comes here:
"Cyber goth" Is the label here. Now you'll notice the huge difference in the goth girls that Pretty flows towards, where I flow towards at times (more often than not) and now the not even inbetween. As far as the subculture goes some of the music can be the same, Angela (mentioned earlier) featured a track called Industrial Love by In Strict Confidence in one of her video's this could really go either way of more trad goth to emo/heavy makeup look to this. Cyber goth to me at least is more of your hardcore rave full blown look as amazing as you can fake synthetic dreadlock etc.. look. I do like some cyber goth but a lot can be over the top for me
So I hope that cleans up the "goth vs goth cam vs emo vs heavy makeup vs suicide girl look" for you. I am no expert on goth's, the culture or anything, Pretty is levels and eon's above me in that but I do know the clear differences between Goth and not goth. Goth's don't always have to wear just black as you probably are aware, they can range widely in what they wear how they wear it when they wear it. There's so much more to the gothic culture than just clothing but that would take too long to cover, this is just the outer appearances. Honestly, I'd probably take a lovely goth woman over any other type of woman, even if she didn't love hockey or anything just how the culture fits well with a lot of things I like (things I don't like to.)
Before you ask, no I'm not goth I couldn't do it, nor wouldn't do it for even Halloween as IMO it would be offensive a normy is playing dressup as a goth for one night or a party, I've never been to a goth club, probably never will be to a goth club.