Sheyda

I've been wearing high heels since I was 12. I went through a phase where I wore ugly trainers (sneakers) because the guy I wanted to date found a girl who wore sporty clothes in browns, greens and greys attractive... Though I realised it is best just to be myself and the real me is much more feminine and elegant. I just wish it were easier to find gorgeous, drop-dead sexy high-heeled sandals and boots in my size. The other shoe sizes have entire aisles of shoes, whereas I only have a 1 metre wide section with 5 shelves of shoes where a quarter of them are more for children than for women.

I wish they had VS here in Canada, too. It's difficult to find my size and something sexy in the stores here. At least I know VS has small enough sizes and sexier styles. The only thing is I can't try it on before I buy it to check that it fits well.

I remember reading a post somewhere ages ago about how someone's mother always wore tights and eventually her leg hair stopped growing back and she never had to shave again. I was thinking it seemed to make sense because people's pets always develop bald patches around their necks from wearing collars all the time. Why shouldn't it happen with humans that always wear close-fitting clothing on their legs? Can anyone who has been wearing tights a lot for a long time confirm if this could be true or not?

^ Neither me nor my mother dated any of the people who stalked us. Many we knew as acquaintances or even friends that suddenly turned weird.

red_ed - I honestly do not have an answer for how I coped, but I felt I had no choice but to cope and so that is what I forced myself to do. Maybe I was not traumatised, but my now husband says that when he first met me I was in a very dark place. Now that I have left the country along with all of those bad memories (and especially the threat of them reccuring) I feel a lot safer and happier and I have changed for the better. My mum has still had to put up with being victimised several times throughout her life, but she is strong and I guess she has learnt to deal with these things. Though I think she and my family should leave. My husband told me that whenever we return to England to visit my family my personality changes very negatively. I did not realise until he pointed it out to me, but I guess that is some kind of strange psychological defence mechanism that has developed. PinkCouture - I am sorry to hear you had to go through that frightening experience. If it makes you feel any better at all, I know how you feel.

That is extremely messed up! Those women know nothing about stalkers. My mum has been stalked and so have I. I wonder how they would handle coming into school one day and being told by a guy exactly what her house looked like, where it was located and what he could see through every window if they can't even handle being talked to? I wonder how they would handle having that guy follow them closer and closer to their house every day after school when all the other days they have seen him go in the opposite direction? I wonder how they would handle a guy jerking off right next to them in the middle of a lecture where everyone ignores what is happening? I wonder how they would handle a man (who's supposed to be doing business with them) trying to rape them in their own home? I wonder how they would handle the discovery that the man who tried to rape them found out which bank they were with and got a job there so he could get all her personal information and call her every day? These are just a few of the things my mum and I have experienced. It disgusts me that any man can be tarred with the same brush just for talking to another person. You shouldn't bother wasting your time on such ignorant, paranoid women who seem to believe every single man is nothing but a potential rapist and can't be bothered to take the time to find out what a man is actually like.

- Glancing and looking at me every few seconds = not perverted. - Staring me up and down and grinning = maybe a little, but I would not condemn the guy for not being able to take his eyes off of someone he finds attractive, or for being happy about it. Who wouldn't be? - Shouting 'You're hot/fit/gorgeous!' across the street to me = not perverted. 'Socially-challenged' maybe... I think most people know that standing a mile away from the girl you like and screaming compliments doesn't usually get you her number. - Telling me I'm nice to look at = not perverted. I take it as a compliment, even if he may not have worded it perfectly. He could be shy, nervous and a little tongue-tied. Plus I would rather be told that than being scowled at and told I look like a sack of shit. - Telling me the explicit things you would like to do to me. For example, 'Man, those legs are so hot I'd love to lick them all the way from your toes to your crotch' = perverted. - Touching me on the shoulder, arm, back, or other non-erogenous place = not perverted, but would be a bit uncomfortable if you are a complete stranger whom I've only just met. - Groping or stroking me in an erogenous place = perverted. Keep in mind many women won't have the same ideas about these things, especially with some types of feminism around today. My husband was screamed at and called sexist for preventing a door from slamming in a woman's face once. <_< Yet I am sure that if he had left the door to bash her right in the nose, she still would've accused him of being a chauvinist pig.

I don't know if my surgery counts as it was kind of the opposite problem because I couldn't even have sex.

Various mixes of Ale, Ana and Adriana: Half Ana, quarter Ale and a quarter Adriana: Half Ale, quarter Ana and quarter Adriana: Half Adriana, quarter Ale and quarter Ana (this one doesn't look much different apart from subtle changes in the nose, around the mouth and under the eyes): Since I am bored, I might try doing other people's requests if they can help me find a pic where the people they want to see mixed are both facing forwards with their mouths closed.

I hope this is the right place to post this and that it hasn't already been posted. I read somewhere that Denny and Adriana have been friends for a very long time. If this is true, perhaps Adriana liked Denny and wanted to date him all along (when she chose to go out with Lenny), but for some reason did not go out with him? Maybe she thought he didn't like her in that way at that time (even beautiful women can be unsure of themselves)? People have been saying she is only going out with Denny because she isn't over Lenny, but I am thinking that if what I read is true it was the other way around and I think that will change the opinions of a lot of people regarding their relationship. If it is true I think it is a sweet story: that two friends eventually became partners. Especially if Denny liked her all this time and she liked him, but they were both too shy to admit it!

It's kindness for me, too. Happiness would probably come second because it is no fun being with a person who is constantly moping in their depression. To the guys who've been turned down for being "too kind": it is possible that this could be a nice way of them saying you act like a doormat. For example, you never think of yourself and are always trying to please them. I know that many people do this thinking they are being nice, but it can come across as being pathetic and needy to the person they are trying to please. I am not saying that anyone here is literally pathetic and needy, but that is how others can perceive you to be and that is why it is important to figure out how to be nice without being a push-over.

Are you sure about those statistics? I am just wondering because it sounds unhealthy that a 5'9.5" woman weighs less than me: a 158cm/5'2" woman that fits into sizes 0-3 (US/Canada).

I've never had an eating disorder, but my own parents thought I did at one point because I am naturally thin. It surprised me because my mum is just as skinny as I am. I knew a girl who had bulimia. She was such a lovely girl and I thought she was beautiful; she had a gorgeous figure, curly brown hair, an adorable smile and warm friendly eyes. We had become closer towards the end, but we lost touch once we left secondary school. I wish I knew how she was doing and that we could be friends again because she was a wonderful person and she did not deserve to have such a disorder.

They sure are. It takes too long in the UK (at least a three month wait), so I am getting the surgery done in Spain. I'll probably go in January/February. ~*BeTtY*~ - Sadly there are no private clinics in this town. I moved to Canada to live with my boyfriend, so I cancelled a lot of things in England and even though I told them that they still said they "can't" do anything.

Well, I have tried to go by asking for a referral from a doctor because I need an operation, but guess what? The clinic called yesterday and all the hospitals/gynaecologists are flat out refusing to see me because I am not a Canadian. So basically, they are telling me to bugger off and rot somewhere because I'm a filthy foreigner. I suppose if I get run over I'll just be left to die in the middle of the road once they realise I'm British. <_<

Raquel Jaramillo.

Marilyn Monroe actually had a 23 inch waist (thinner than Alessandra's, who has been mentioned as an example of what is too skinny). Her hips and breasts were a little bigger than Ale's (only by 2-3 inches), but she was also a lot shorter. If she was stretched out to the same height as Ale, she wouldn't have looked much different from her. If you take one group of measurements from a tall person who looks very skinny, squash them down into a short person, the short person will look curvy even if they have identical measurements to the tall, skeletal-looking woman. I also agree that everyone should take emphasis off of being super skinny as well as taking emphasis off of being super curvy. Instead of saying "being thin is the only way to be beautiful!" or "being curvy is the only way to be a real woman!" I think all body types should be embraced and shown as being normal and beautiful.

Didn't you know? That's why they call Ale a supermodel; she has the power to make people gay and/or pregnant by touching their stomachs with her fingertips.

That doesn't matter. He just will take some samples form your vaginal flow, or some echo, or something like that, and he'll study that to see if there's something wrong with you. You can't wait until you live permanently in some place. Be careful. I've received two opinions; one from a sex clinic and one from a hospital. One said I would have to wait six months before seeing a gynaecologist, the other said I can't even see a gynaecologist without a doctor's referral and I can't get a doctor here unless I have permanent residence. Even if I could see a gynaecologist here in Canada, if these tests you describe require the use of a speculum I won't be able to have them until I can afford an operation (really long story).

Well, at least I know I am not the only one with weird thoughts. When I first saw the title I thought of growing facial hair.

I've never tried any of those things, but I agree with Alka; trimming regularly makes hair grow faster for me too. Do these products have their own website? I'm curious because I searched for some of them on google and they sound similar to scam products such as diet pills, pills for perfect skin and pills for strong fast-growing nails. I would check them out before trying because to me it sounds like it could just be another one of those companies preying on innocent women's insecurities to make a load of money. Not saying this is definitely the case, but I would be wary about spending my money on something like this when I could wait a while and grow my own hair for free.

I guess I'm stuck with over-the-counter sleeping pills then. I can't see a doctor because I don't have permanent residence here in Canada.

It's 4.30 a.m. and I haven't slept at all because at the beginning of my period I always get a fever and then go freezing cold every five minutes. I already feel a tension headache coming from lack of sleep. Does anybody know what to do other than popping sleeping pills until I pass out?

I don't know why all the tall girls on the previous page are moaning about their weight. I'm 5'2"/158cm and only one to three kilos lighter than them and yet plenty of people have called me anorexic! If you weigh about the same as me and you're a lot taller you must look a hell of a lot thinner than me, unless tall people have some kind of weightless fat disease, or something.