well - I wouldn't kiss someone's butt after basketball practise ... ( i say that because my b/f is always at basketball practises and I usually see him afterward) and actually, I usually get real cleaned up if I plan on getting some action - I'll shave, get cleaned up, wear matching lingerie ... that's only if it's not spontanious, though... otherwise wtv. But we don't have many opertunities to get together in that way because we are really busy. I said the shower business because the previous posts seemed to be geared toward being afraid of a little ass cheek action..