I know what you mean. A lot of the times, in your face hot is = one night stand hot, and over rated Imperfections make him not typical hot, which is soo boring. I like a guy with some edge, he's rugged.. a really man and not just some pretty boy. I'm totally attracted to this guy because he's not in your face hot, but you want him in your face Heck, I want him in my bed... all night long!