Why did you adopt children when you are single? hahah! i feel like a broken record for some reason! hahah! well its my surefire plan. i just know it. the thought of childbirth terrifies me so. i'm adopting because i know i'll be more than financially competent and if I can save at least one child from prostitution and human trafficking in bulgaria or a boy from becoming a child-soldier in uganda... then i'll know i've done my part. sure its going to amazing and great to have your own flesh and blood, words can't even describe the feeling, but i feel like i would be doing more if i gave an already living child the opportunity of life. and yes, the love shared between a man and a woman (or however you like) is the most amazing thing, don't get me wrong, but being a wife is just so hard.