I'm confused too...the first time was because I neglected him often...so he cheated...since it was my fault...I forgive him...after learning my lesson, I try my best to be a perfect girlfriend...but after he go to college...he met this girl...and he said that she's got many things that I don't have...And now he sees me as a kid, and I'm childish...because I'm still in highskool...though he's 2years older...And he said that he realise highskool girls are childish...and he was just playing, especially when he cheated on me during his highskool years...he said he wasn't serious about that girl...But this time he said he was serious about the girl from his college