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5 hours ago, MissPadilla said:

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Dem melons

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Miss the old days she used to be so much hotter. Memories.

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12 hours ago, ThorGod said:

Miss the old days she used to be so much hotter. Memories.

I guess it's a matter of personal taste, but to me, she still looks amazing. Of her generation, I'd say she's the model who has aged the best, by far.

I disagree, but to each their own, I guess. For me, it's not really about her age, because obviously everyone ages, but more about how she's maintained her overall look over the years. I've seen other models around her age who have maintained themselves better or even enhanced themselves. I don't feel like she's maintained the same level of fitness over the years. I also get the impression that there's been more reliance on cosmetic procedures and treatments to maintain or improve her appearance, rather than a natural athletic look. Looking back at her best years, I can't help feeling disappointed with how things have progressed. I feel like she doesn't put in the works that's necessary to get herself in better shape. Everything went downhill since she got together with that douche Nicoli Oddi, Richard Lee, and now Buck Palmer. She doesn't focus on herself enough and is striving through emotional dysfunction and is caught in a cycle of serial rebounding.

Moving through three relationships in just a couple of years usually isn't about finding love, it functions as a psychological anaesthesia. Her separations somehow shattered her self-worth, and entering new relationships acted as an instant "ego boost" to prove to herself and the world that she is still desirable. Her relationships are formed defensively to run away from pain, rather than intentionally moving towards a compatible partner. Once her brief honeymoon phase fades and real life sinks in, her relationships collapses, prompting a jump to the next buffer. By continuously anchoring her identity to new partners, she never takes the time to really find out who she is outside of a relationship. Ultimately, watching multiple consecutive relationships fail builds a sense of defeat. This could cause her to give up on maintaining seriousness or ambition in other areas of her life, leading to a state of aimless drifting, heavily dictating her sense of self and daily structure.

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25 minutes ago, ThorGod said:

I disagree, but to each their own, I guess. For me, it's not really about her age, because obviously everyone ages, but more about how she's maintained her overall look over the years. I've seen other models around her age who have maintained themselves better or even enhanced themselves. I don't feel like she's maintained the same level of fitness over the years. I also get the impression that there's been more reliance on cosmetic procedures and treatments to maintain or improve her appearance, rather than a natural athletic look. Looking back at her best years, I can't help feeling disappointed with how things have progressed. I feel like she doesn't put in the works that's necessary to get herself in better shape. Everything went downhill since she got together with that douche Nicoli Oddi, Richard Lee, and now Buck Palmer. She doesn't focus on herself enough and is striving through emotional dysfunction and is caught in a cycle of serial rebounding.

Moving through three relationships in just a couple of years usually isn't about finding love, it functions as a psychological anaesthesia. Her separations somehow shattered her self-worth, and entering new relationships acted as an instant "ego boost" to prove to herself and the world that she is still desirable. Her relationships are formed defensively to run away from pain, rather than intentionally moving towards a compatible partner. Once her brief honeymoon phase fades and real life sinks in, her relationships collapses, prompting a jump to the next buffer. By continuously anchoring her identity to new partners, she never takes the time to really find out who she is outside of a relationship. Ultimately, watching multiple consecutive relationships fail builds a sense of defeat. This could cause her to give up on maintaining seriousness or ambition in other areas of her life, leading to a state of aimless drifting, heavily dictating her sense of self and daily structure.

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I don’t know, that seems like a bit of a stretch to me. I think Alessandra still looks incredible, after all, she’s a 45-year-old mother of two. Is there any woman who fits that description and is still in even better physical shape? Maybe, but she’s definitely got to be somewhere in the top 0.0001% of 45-year-old mothers worldwide in terms of her appearance and physical fitness. Has she had certain cosmetic procedures done? Yes, but hey, that’s inevitable for celebrities, especially those who make a living off their physical appearance. All things considered, in Alessandra’s case, whatever she’s had done hasn’t ruined her look, everything looks harmonious with her body, it’s not like she looks overly fake or like a completely different person, as happens to many others.

As for her relationships, it’s a personal topic; it’s hard to comment from the outside because we also have very little information. I haven’t gotten the impression that she’s a desperate woman, after all, since her breakup with Jamie in 2018, she’s been known to have had three serious relationships with the men you mentioned. Three relationships in 8 years doesn’t strike me as unusual or excessive, and no one is immune to having bad luck in love or ending up with a few bad partners (though we don’t know much about them, the only one who gave me bad vibes was Oddi, who seemed like the classic womanizer). Three partners in eight years, including her current boyfriend, to whom she’s engaged and with whom she seems quite in love and happy, I don’t know. I’m sure she’s also had her share of more casual flings that we don't know about (and that we don’t necessarily need to know about), but those numbers or that sequence of events don’t strike me as grounds for talking about emotional dysfunction.

What I mean is that she relies heavily on cosmetic treatments rather than actual working out to keep her figure in shape. Her famous legs have lost their muscle tone, and her core lacks the definition she used to have because she simply doesn't train properly anymore. Relying on clinics instead of hard work isn't a "harmonious" progression. There are plenty of mothers out there with three kids at the exact same age who look significantly tighter and fitter because they consistently put in the effort at the gym instead of taking shortcuts. Also, your timeline is off. She didn’t split her time evenly across 8 years. Nicoli Oddi, Richard Lee, and Buck Palmer all happened in a rapid, overlapping sequence of back-to-back rebounds over just a couple of years.

If you look at the actual public timeline of her relationships following her 2018 split with Jamie Mazur:

• Nicolo Oddi: July 2018 to December 2020 (Approx. 2.5 years)

• Richard Lee: February 2021 to mid-2023 (Approx. 2.5 years)

• Buck Palmer: Late 2024 to present (They got engaged in 2026)
  

This means these three relationships spanned roughly 8 years total (2018 to 2026) rather than all happening in a tiny window. Hopping from one relationship into the next without a break to actually recover is the exact definition of using relationships as a buffer. I never said she looked fake, and I never called her desperate. But ignoring the obvious drop in her fitness motivation and her chaotic relationship pattern is just denial. But okay, I guess you just want to see what you want to see.

34 minutes ago, ThorGod said:

What i mean is that she relies more on cosmetic procedures than working out to get her buttocks in shape for example. Same wit

What I mean is that she relies heavily on cosmetic treatments rather than actual working out to keep her figure in shape. Her famous legs have lost their muscle tone, and her core lacks the definition she used to have because she simply doesn't train properly anymore. Relying on clinics instead of hard work isn't a "harmonious" progression. There are plenty of mothers out there with three kids at the exact same age who look significantly tighter and fitter because they consistently put in the effort at the gym instead of taking shortcuts. Also, your timeline is off. She didn’t split her time evenly across 8 years. Nicoli Oddi, Richard Lee, and Buck Palmer all happened in a rapid, overlapping sequence of back-to-back rebounds over just a couple of years.

If you look at the actual public timeline of her relationships following her 2018 split with Jamie Mazur:

• Nicolo Oddi: July 2018 to December 2020 (Approx. 2.5 years)

• Richard Lee: February 2021 to mid-2023 (Approx. 2.5 years)

• Buck Palmer: Late 2024 to present (They got engaged in 2026)
  

This means these three relationships spanned roughly 8 years total (2018 to 2026) rather than all happening in a tiny window. Hopping from one relationship into the next without a break to actually recover is the exact definition of using relationships as a buffer. I never said she looked fake, and I never called her desperate. But ignoring the obvious drop in her fitness motivation and her chaotic relationship pattern is just denial. But okay, I guess you just want to see what you want to see.

Okay, we're not going to see eye to eye on this and I feel like you're being a bit too defensive, so I guess it's best to leave it at that.

Funny how disagreeing with your interpretation makes me "defensive," while you disagreeing with mine is supposedly not defensive. I've explained my reasoning, and you're free to disagree with it. But you don't get to determine my emotional state simply because I don't share your assessment. We can leave it here indeed no need to get delusive all of sudden.

1 hour ago, ThorGod said:

Funny how disagreeing with your interpretation makes me "defensive," while you disagreeing with mine is supposedly not defensive. I've explained my reasoning, and you're free to disagree with it. But you don't get to determine my emotional state simply because I don't share your assessment. We can leave it here indeed no need to get delusive all of sudden.

I’ve been quite respectful in my first response and open to discussion, but if you tell me that I'm denial and “you just want to see what you want to see,” well, that does strike me as a defensive stance and one that’s not very open to considering other opinions. I find it funny that you’re telling me I can’t say that, based on your message, you seem a little defensive, because that’s “determining your emotional state”, when you’ve just gone on to say that Alessandra is emotionally dysfunctional, lacks motivation to train or has a chaotic pattern of relationships (3 in 8 years, including her current one)... I guess you’re allowed to do that lol.

I'm not saying you're not allowed to disagree with me. I was giving my opinion based on what I've observed, just as you're giving yours. Me disagreeing with you doesn't make my arguments automatically defensive. As for Alessandra, we clearly have different standards when it comes to her physique and how much she's maintained her former look. That's subjective, and neither of us is going to settle it through a forum debate. The relationship speculation is a separate matter. You're conflating two different things here. But you also inferred that I was defensive based on my posts. That's your interpretation, not an objective fact. The difference is that I'm addressing the arguments you're making rather than pretending I can establish your emotional state from a few paragraphs. So I think we can leave it there. We're entitled to our respective opinions without turning a disagreement into a debate about each other's personalities. We've both made our points. No need to keep going in circles.