Souled-Out

In the end it would be HIS decision to ask her, nots hers. Just like it was his decision to pose like that smh. Yeah you're lucky because the ball was dropping when I saw this lol.

That is the same dress. Maybe its for tradition. I guess in that VS video she was telling the truth that she likes to wear white for peace. The party also is often an all white party so. I think its a tradition for her. Yeah this is a difference from last year, she went live and everything last year. But like you said, metin there. With his attention seeking behavior (if this is a joke) per usual. I bet he knows some people were gonna snap this and post it, now its gonna create soo much buzz. True or not. This is the icing on the cake for him. Right before he leaves create buzz ONE more time and make it obvious they together.

And the person didn't hashtag marriage nor engagement. They didn't use the ring emoji neither but god. I just can't put it past metin to try this. I pray that you are right, I seriously do. Them dating alone makes me and everyone fear for adriana and gives people anxiety. Marrying?Just..

Say NO Adriana please. ONLY SIX months. He is manipulative, he wants to change you and has been trying to. If this is real and if she says yes... Adriana don't do this to yourself, your family hasn't even followed him on social media yet

You all would not believe me when I say a fellow fan said what if just 30 minutes ago, saying what if metin ends up pulling something like this. She has only known him for six months, things just got rocky between them. Please don't let this be real. Seriously.

I wonder if she will post anything for new years. She did last year and even went live but with metin still being there who knows..

Its still 2017 here but happy new years! Lol We need some happiness to talk about here

Exactly, he only did that because he saw her, we feel its unnecessary and Adriana isn't even looking. He didn't even have a question on there originally.

Right. She isn't in most of the photos he has posted lately. Like that love wins post, it looks like he was pretending to take a pic of whatever it was he holding, but he clearly made a point to show Adriana in the background. She wasn't looking then...And trying to pretend he is just showing about the party, as if he spent money on it. Knowing very well it was Adriana's coins because this her usual New Years party. Again he went a day without showing he was with her so he has to makeup for that today. ALSO I see he changed the picture he had posted of Adriana, he changed it to asking people how was 2017, I guess to pretend like its not about showing Adriana but like I said before, every thing on the internet stays on there. This is the ORIGINAL post: He just changed it after we called it out of him posting her without looking as if its his party and stuff. He is always trying to save his own ass when he is caught doing this stuff

Literally what is the point of HIM posting that, I bet he didn't even invest ANY money in her party.

Adriana doesn't need a book. She doesn't need a manipulative spiritual teacher/boyfriend who truly only cares about himself and his OWN image and getting attention from being with her. She needs at most a therapist, someone like that. A PLATONIC professional. Platonic meaning, its their job, they aren't going to want to be in a relationship with her, they are truly just there to help. Someone who actually specializes and is educated on helping people like her, not just writing a book about it and doing speeches.Somebody has an office for doing this. Atleast you know their intentions won't be to manipulate her, change her into what they want her to be, or trying to become her partner. Its gonna be genuine if she got help from somebody like that instead.

He is an athlete though. Ofcourse I hate this adriana and metin just as much as literally everybody else. But her situation being sad and scary are different from Izabel and her bf. They have nothing to do with each other. To me its not sad that Adriana doesn't have a handsome, just as wealthy, guy with her. Different strokes for different folks on the superficial qualities (even though having somebody with as much money is good because the person wouldn't be insecure). But it is sad that her past relationships and life experience whatever they may be, has lead her into the hands of the wrong kind of person. A person who can take advantage of her. A person who can manipulate her especially since people say he has a way with words. A person who literally makes a living changing people. Adriana running into him while she was down and vulnerable and "lost" makes her likely to change even more than she has to because its like she has forgotten her self worth. She is just an easy target for somebody like him. And you can't blame fans being skeptical of him in general when he was liking so many comments talking about him influencing and changing her. He has changed her to a point where nobody feels like they know who Adriana is anymore. Her own mom doesn't even seems to be on board with some of the things he had her saying and is liking photos of Adriana that she took her clothes off in. And her mom and family and agents usually looks more supportive than they do this time. But I don't blame her mom/family nor fans nor even the media for looking at this skeptical now. It truly is sad she has gotten to a point that her life, trust, and loyalty has ended up in the wrong hands. The hands of somebody who is able to convince her to change drastically in a short amount of time. The RIGHT person, no matter what, would see Adriana and appreciate her for the person that she is and what she does for her career. Just because she wasn't perfect and she is human and has her "baggage" doesn't mean she has to do a 180 on herself. the right person won’t encourage her to dilute, censor, or edit herself in order to feel worthy of something. She don’t need to waste her time on people who are committed to turning her into who THEY want her to be. Adriana has made it so far and is still here today and was one of the most loved and inspiring individuals BEFORE metin for a reason. Now he has her looking hypocritical, ungrateful to the success and blessing she had in her career, and also just bizarre in general. When you're vulnerable and insecure about yourself, you end up letting people do this kind of damage to you. And we all know Adriana was at a bad point in her life, because she said it on IG. Adriana doesn't need to be with a soccer/futbol player in general but she surely doesn't need to be with somebody who she allows to make her look bad. Its been hard on social media, seeing people who already hated adriana, have a field day with this and you can't even defend her because for the first time in her life, she has given people good reason to think bad things about her. All because she put too much faith and power in metin.

She wasn't prude enough to work with VS for 18 years, which is a company that requires her to take off her clothes. And Adriana literally DEFENDED work like that back in easter, before she met him. And she really has done her share of nude work. And she is a supposed to be a feminist, feminist don't exactly agree with ideas of a Niqab. Feminist don't think something is wrong with taking their clothes off. If Adriana was so concerned about how people would feel just by looking at her, she would not show herself all together. Like I said its her face more than anything that got her where she is. Even she knew that because she talked about how after having kids her body has not gotten better but her face did. She knows her face is her best quality, so why even trip like that over showing her body? Especially when she defended her last LOVE Advert. And like literally everyone was saying, Adriana wasn't making sense in that post. It was extremely confusing for many and that never happens. And she literally admits it was like an "overnight" thing, it had nothing to do with her past, thats why she said in the post something about "I woke up today and I thought". But you just don't wake up like that. You just don't wake up and do a 180 on the kind of person she was before. She made that post literally the day after she made it her business to tell Rita ora about metin's book and stuff. That is cult like behavior, recruitment. And Metin HIMSELF literally took responsibility by liking multiple comments, that literally said he was the influence behind it. Its literally all there, there is a reason why so many fans, non-fans, and the media were concerned. It truly was bizarre. And she just followed an account that is not prude at all lol. You keep calling her that just because she just didn't do enough nude work for you. Adriana was never that prude and it looks like she isn't today

Is rihanna's name listed??

About metin being a healer, I don't.... All I know is that he is a human being. Thats obvious. I am a religious person. I don't believe that humans on this earth weren't created equal, power wise. I believe all humans are BORN equal and metin doesn't have anymore power that he was innate with than Adriana. I believe there is a higher power than humans but they aren't a human himself, its a god. Personally. But metin is no god, none of that, Metin is a damn human liked the rest of us. He don't have any supernatural abilities nor power more than we do. I guess that explains his entitlement and constant need for people to glorify him. But let me tell you something, one things that humans tend to have is the placebo effect. The placebo effect is real and its in all of our brains. All people have to do is BELIEVE that something will work, and it will work. Its because of the brain's ability to trick the body. I learned this in medical anthropology (REAL social science). All people have to do is be told something , and believe it, and it can help them. Especially medically. Learned it in the video below, they talk to real doctors and surgeons and researchers. They pretended to give two crippled war vets surgery so that they can walk again. But they actually didn't perform any operation on them. Because of the power of him believing he got that surgery, he actually walked again. But he never got a surgery. Its all in this doc: Stuff like this happens all the time, and we know it. We always talk about the power of belief in life. Placebo is one of those things. Everybody says metin has a way of words. All metin has to do is persuade a person enough of his abilities, tell his story that could be a bit false, and the "healing" would work. When really, its the person believing in that healing, not the actual healing himself. This is why nobody should talk to him like he is a miracle or above so many, he isn't. All that "love" "healing".. all you need is positvity and belief. Another reason why Adriana should stop giving him so much power.

More modelling work in general. I understand why this year was a bit off. VS had her working more and then her show. I hope 2018 is better, IDK how possible that is after her IG post, but we can pray

Exactly, nobody even caught on to it, but YOU. Why is he even on here?? I don't think any of adriana's partners went as far as going on here... Is he trying to see how much attention and praise he gained from Adriana from her fans? You gained attention but its not good buddy. And right, the waiting to delete it after he is caught liking the comment says so much. He is good with words? Well, actions ALWAYS speaks louder than words... and his actions aren't good. Also, about the pic, She always glows when not single to be honest. She was the same with Marko and the others. Its another indication that Adriana just does not like being single.

just like someone here busted him for liking this: Not only did he deactivate his account for a while, he goes back on and just deleted the comment all together. SMH. He only stop doing things once we talk about how wrong it is on here. Its not even genuine, he is just trying to save his own ass.

Oh no, thats not it. We say that because 1. He is manipulative and he has been changing her. 2. One of the ways he has changed her is the subject of clothes and taking them off. Adriana has spent too many years doing it. And Just this easter she defended doing model jobs like that after her last LOVE advt. Now all of a sudden, after preaching the word of that book to rita ora, she decides to go back on her ideas of feminism and taking off the clothes. It just don't make sense. And she used the excuse of girls feeling insecure when looking at her body, Adriana what about your FACE??? Thats always been more compelling and sought after than her body. If anything thats what she needs to hide lol, but please don't let her decide that . She shouldn't have to hide ANY part of her body for ANYBODY. She never had to, and she doesn't have to now.. and then he reposted that post, with a caption that was like a pat on the head. And he literally LIKED comments that said he was influencing her and brain washing comments didn't bother him, unless he was shamed for it. Metin literally told on himself about being behind it. So, no we aren't being racist, we know about his culture and we also know that he is purposely influencing her and trying to change her into thinking the way he does. He is shaped by his culture himself and since he is trying to influence Adriana, he is going to try to shape her the same way, he basically already has.

Exactly! Telling her "Oh Adriana, your eyes are the most beautiful and stunning, thats all you need to show" I was hoping that 2018 would be a better year for her career (she spent more time for her show and in VS this year ) but I don't even know now...

I have always felt that way about LOVE. But its only specific to THEM. In general I think Adriana should be able to take off her clothes as long as its tasteful and artistic, which she didn't even mind before and she still shouldn't.

Yeah, I don't think you joined here yet when I said this. But I told a user, That caption reminded me of when people try to summarize or paraphrase something someone else said, but it doesn't come out the best nor does it make as much sense, because it didn't come from them. It came from somebody else, and all they are trying to do is to put someone else's idea into their own words. Thats the perfect way to describe Adriana's caption that and Adriana never had a caption like that before

Ya'll know I am usually about "not caring" about this part of her life. I even felt bad for him at the start of them.But this dude is so manipulating and controlling, his relationship with her is literally affecting her career and spilling over into her career. As fans, we have rights to be concerned about that, thats half of the reasons we are fans. And I generally do care about her mental health and state of mind, and he is also affecting that. And as others said, he is literally making long time, loyal, dedicated and genuine fans raise their eyebrows at her.

As far as Adriana goes, I can't be sure of whether or not anything her fans said she took seriously. Because no matter how people feel on this forum and outside of it, Adriana always continues to be with the guy LOL. Its not until the final straw with her happens, and she lets the guy go. As I said before, I feel like Adriana has a stubborn streak. I feel like the only person who can tell her what to do would be her mom. I think she is one of those people who probably brush off her fans being worried because she is like "Well, they don't know him personally like I do. So they aren't right". But a red flag is a red flag. Metin's behavior is honestly shady and sometimes disgusting, her fans don't have to know him to SEE that its wrong he likes comments implying she wasn't as good before him and liking comments that approve of his brain washing. That he gives her a "pat" on the head for saying she won't take her clothes off for empty causes, but followed alot of models who took their clothes in every other post (he only approves of Adriana not doing it because Adriana is "his"). SMH. You don't have to know him, to see whats wrong with all of that. There is no telling what sparked it honestly, because Adri honestly she never listens to her fans much LOL, not when it comes to relationships. She is as stubborn as a mule about them, even when all her fans are just concerned, and sometimes they are right. Because they aren't the ones blinded by something As far as metin goes, I still think he was so over-reactive to the break up rumors because he simply didn't want people to think it. He didn't want people to think he lost "Adriana Lima", like I said he is seeing her as a trophy, esp since he is turkish and she is big there. This is just a "score" for him, and her actually being controlled and manipulated and changing because of him, is the icing on the cake for him. Because its always about him. Like I said, he is just looking out for himself. He wasn't threatening to sue when the turkish press were taking invasive pics of them on vacation. THATS something you sue over, not break up rumors. But he didn't threatened to sue over the intrusive pics because it SHOWS they are together. Which is what he likes. Its all about attention and showing off and glorification of himself

I think alot of people are concerned or atleast puzzled when she made that IG post, even the media, thats why they turned to metin saying they think he had something to do with it. Thats why they described her post as an incoherent rambling and stuff, it sounded troubling to them because... Adriana has been around for 18 years. Sure her fans don't know her PERSONALLY nor does the media, but we all have a good enough idea about her because of all the years spent. And alot of people can tell something is up and she isn't who she has always been. She isn't even who she was six months before, literally. There is a change and its not good and it happened in a short amount of time. You don't make big changes like that about yourself overnight and ironically in her post, she tries to claim that.But thats not realistic, to be that way over night. Literally not even her own mom can bring herself to like that post. I feel like even her own PR TEAM was blind-sided by that. It took them a day to get a statement out. Now imagine that, not only did she make a 180 turn on who she was overnight, by saying something thats related to her career, and it seems like even her own PR representatives and management weren't on board.... You announce something so major and foreign about your career, but even her agents didn't seem prepared (nor did they like/comment on that photo and they usually do like her mom). Adriana had just came from NY and everything after she said that, if she wanted to do that for herself I think she would have discussed it with her team first before just saying it on social media. Just more evidence that the post was impulsive and it really didn't come from her originally. Sorry but you actually don't just wake up like that. Thats time of brain washing and shit. Even metin pretty much admitted to do that when he liked comments about "influencing" her and he wouldn't originally delete comments that just said "influence" or "brainwashing", he would only delete comments that criticized him for it. As long as people didn't criticize him for it, he was ok being called that. Dude even went as far as liking comments that implied adriana wasn't good before. That is terrible! And thats just not good nor fair to her, he shouldn't think nor should he have her think she wasn't good before he came into her life and before she read that book.