Begonia Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 In my head I pretend to be someone else. I sometimes pretend I look like Michelle Vawer, Mila Kunis, and I sometimes pretend that I have a cousin that looks like Miranda Kerr, Indiana Evans or Sandra Kubicka and that I have a neighbor that looks like Barbara Palvin. Am I crazy? is this normal? Am I the only one doing this? Is there a cure to this? I haven't told anyone cuz I am embarrased about it, & I don't want them to think I am crazy. I've been doing this since I was a kid. & I do it everyday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnaBBarrosFan Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 How old are you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Begonia Posted November 29, 2012 Author Share Posted November 29, 2012 I am about to be 16. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnaBBarrosFan Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 Eh, you are in the range where it's kinda weird but you are still a kid. lol It sounds to me like you are just daydreaming, and as long as you aren't actively believing or trying to pass it off as reality you are just fine. Well I should add that as long as it doesn't interfere with your perceptions of people, as in you attribute qualities that aren't there, either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
russellb Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 Actually, I don't want to be reported... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennka Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 In my head I pretend to be someone else. I sometimes pretend I look like Michelle Vawer, Mila Kunis, and I sometimes pretend that I have a cousin that looks like Miranda Kerr, Indiana Evans or Sandra Kubicka and that I have a neighbor that looks like Barbara Palvin. Am I crazy? is this normal? Am I the only one doing this? Is there a cure to this? I haven't told anyone cuz I am embarrased about it, & I don't want them to think I am crazy. I've been doing this since I was a kid. & I do it everyday.Well, at least you´re being honest about it? Maybe when you grow up you realize that these things are not important at all.I sometimes pretend I´m a very nice girl and that I actually care about people.Ouch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennka Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 Actually, I don't want to be reported...Oh, come on, we won´t tell anyone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SicK As mY SecReTs Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 I guess it's cuz of age,but you should try to give it up,maybe none can see/feel what you're doing, but don't think it's a good habit...btw, how do you feel about yourself,I mean, do you like your look or have some problems with it ??? do you like your circle of friends ???I don't know a lot about psychology,but heard ppl who aren't satisfied with their look and see themselves as ugly human beings, often want to be someone else,who they think are beautiful... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamss Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 In my head I pretend to be someone else. I sometimes pretend I look like Michelle Vawer, Mila Kunis, and I sometimes pretend that I have a cousin that looks like Miranda Kerr, Indiana Evans or Sandra Kubicka and that I have a neighbor that looks like Barbara Palvin. Am I crazy? is this normal? Am I the only one doing this? Is there a cure to this? I haven't told anyone cuz I am embarrased about it, & I don't want them to think I am crazy. I've been doing this since I was a kid. & I do it everyday.For what it's worth I used to think (maybe pretend) my mother looked like Halle Berry. I think I stopped thinking like that when I was 16 or so. I think it's just a phase. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Begonia Posted November 29, 2012 Author Share Posted November 29, 2012 I don't think I am ugly. People always tell me I am biutiful, and they give me candy & chocolate all the time. Not trying to be conceited but I think I am somewhat attractive. I really don't have friend I am socially awkward, I really just have 2 real friend. But I been doing this for years. I pretend Michelle Vawer and Barbara Palvin are mermaids, & I pretend Miranda & Indiana are sister. But I know is all fake, is all on my head. I act normal around people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnaBBarrosFan Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 I don't think I am ugly. People always tell me I am biutiful, and they give me candy & chocolate all the time. Not trying to be conceited but I think I am somewhat attractive. I really don't have friend I am socially awkward, I really just have 2 real friend. But I been doing this for years. I pretend Michelle Vawer and Barbara Palvin are mermaids, & I pretend Miranda & Indiana are sister. But I know is all fake, is all on my head. I act normal around people. Like strangers? Because I don't know if your mother/teachers/authority figures ever told you this... but you don't take candy from strangers. It's kind of a thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Begonia Posted November 29, 2012 Author Share Posted November 29, 2012 But I z them everyday @ school. I have classes w/them or they would be a relative friend. They are not strangers. 1 of my teacher gave me an expensive pen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnaBBarrosFan Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 Do you live in a small town, by any chance?Because here in Miami, you may be pretty, but there are like 8,000 beautiful people around at given moment in time, anywhere so people don't give a shit. Being attractive in a city like mine is nothing special.Like they say here: a [insert small city/state that isn't NY or Cali] 10 is a Miami 4. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamss Posted November 30, 2012 Share Posted November 30, 2012 Maybe it's because you spend too much time alone? People's minds tend to make things up when they don't interact with other people as much as they need to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SicK As mY SecReTs Posted November 30, 2012 Share Posted November 30, 2012 I don't think I am ugly. People always tell me I am biutiful, and they give me candy & chocolate all the time. Not trying to be conceited but I think I am somewhat attractive. I really don't have friend I am socially awkward, I really just have 2 real friend. But I been doing this for years. I pretend Michelle Vawer and Barbara Palvin are mermaids, & I pretend Miranda & Indiana are sister. But I know is all fake, is all on my head. I act normal around people. it's good you have two real friends! important is to have a real friend,and it's not necessary them to be 10 or more. try to make other friends, just friends,not real/best friends, try to be in public and have contact with ppl,I think you should spend more time with ppl and not to be alone often,maybe deep inside you want to be more communicative but can't realise it yet,so try to be with ppl all the time and let's see if it helps! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maiya Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 cool. You should be a writer, because you have a creative mind. Is good to be different, at least you don't have a boring mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Begonia Posted December 4, 2012 Author Share Posted December 4, 2012 I think is pretty cool 2 pretend that ur mother look like Halle Berry. I am pretty alone stuck @ home just doing homework. My parents r pretty strict don't let me go out w/my 2 real friends 2 the movies or the mall. I can only go 2 mall w/my mom or sister. They just want me 2B @ home doing chores, homework & soccer. I live in a little town. I use to live L.A. when I was kid. Maiya I like ur advice. I don't think I am a good writer. Lovely avatar too. Do you guys think is a disease? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Layla90 Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 My advice-this forum is not a short text message... there are way too many (or '2 many') '2s' in your post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnaBBarrosFan Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 This is what 40yr old men pretending to teenage girls write like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
russellb Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 This is what 40yr old men pretending to teenage girls write like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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