So you want your breasts to be a sign of your maturity. I guess many women think like that. I really hope that one day women will be judged by their personality and intelligence, and not by their boob size. Hmm, and is it really the case that guys look at your breasts and think "Oh God, she must be a high school student..."? That's so sad. I guess that you would be ashamed much more if they had those thoughts after talking to you for a while. Small boobs are not a tragedy, small intelligence is. There are many girls who have smaller breasts than you, and yet they don't decide on a surgery.
I don't want to sound rude or anything, just throwing in my two cents... I'm happy if you're happy And I'm sure you're gonna look wonderful with "new" breasts (no irony whatsoever). I'm only arguing that you're not doing it totally for yourself. In a sense, you're doing it also for those guys who think of you as an undergraduate. You want to show that you're a woman. And I perfectly understand that
Hmmm, on the other hand... I could think that I have a small penis (in fact, it's average-sized), but I don't even think about any augmentation surgery. Even if a bigger penis would probably boost my confidence.
I think a lot of women who get breast implants want their breast size to be reflective of their age/maturity. In fact, I've spoken to many women who've had it done and that is a main factor. In a perfect world, women wouldn't be judged by their looks at all and a man wouldn't be judged by his career/education/money. But it's not a perfect world and never will be. I'm not doing this for any guy or guys because I'm happily taken. This truly is for me and to feel better about myself. I see nothing wrong with that. Breast implants are a very personal decision that each woman needs to take the time to make. It's not right for everyone, but it was right for me.
I am 110% happy with my breasts. I absolutely LOVE them. It's been exactly 2 months since my surgery and my breasts are so soft... they are as soft as they were when they were natural. My regular physician (not my plastic surgeon) was shocked how amazing my implants are, she said she had never seen results as natural looking as mine. I'm a full D, sometimes a DD in certain bras, so I went up 2+ cup sizes. But they look natural and just perfect on my figure. I fill out all my shirts wonderfully, I don't feel insecure when I put on form-fitting shirts or low-cut tops. I can squeeze them like natural breasts, they bounce like natural breasts. As far as I'm concerned, they are more natural than any of those fake padded bras I used to wear to look busty.
I say, to each her own. But for those girls who are interested, you need to take your time to do your research and find the best doctor. I had one of the best doctors in my city and he did a fantastic job! I would do it all over again if I had to.
Btw -- my fiance is incredibly happy and he loves them! He can't get over how natural they feel. He loves the more feminine look. He loved me before and he still loves me now.