Your Existing Situation Trying to improve his position and prestige. Dissatisfied with his existing circumstances and considers some improvement essential to his self-esteem. Your Stress Sources Has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates him and inhibits his readiness to give himself freely. While he wants to surrender and let himself go, he regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, he feels, will lift him above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality. Your Restrained Characteristics Circumstances are such that he feels forced to compromise for the time being if he is to avoid being cut off from affection or from full participation. Feels cut off and unhappy because of the difficulty in achieving the essential degree of cooperation and harmony which he desires. Your Desired Objective Needs to feel identified with someone or something and wishes to win support by his charm and amiability. Sentimental and yearns for a romantic tenderness. Your Actual Problem Greatly impressed by the unique, by originality, and by individuals of outstanding characteristics. Tries to emulate the characteristics he admires and to display originality in his own personality. the actual problem part is scary enough
