That would certainly not go over well. No, definitely not. It's...icky. I would have issues with it. Plus, I don't like submissive men. My boy and I like power games, but if I had to say which one of us was the true sub, it'd be me. I mean obviously it's nice to have someone else initate and take over every now and then, but in the end, he always ends up in charge. lol, which is absolutely fine with me. The less control i have, the happier I am.