to feel that we're really loved.. there's no grater feeling than feeling like you're their one and only, honesty and loyalty are a must! we need to feel like you're always telling us the truth and we can trust you're being a good boy when we're not around. a good sense of humor is always good. umm..what else.. sweetness and showing you care is a must. (for me anyway.. i can't speak for other girls)
i agree with the quote said above: "honey, i don't wanted to be treated like i'm equal, i want to be treated like i'm better than you" (or something along those lines.)
oh and i'm def. not one of the girls you mentioned, i hate it when guys do the whole 'hard to get' thing. leave that for us girls!