morpheu

maybe she won't go because she want's to be out of the media for a while

@Claudsbacking him up for what?

@emerald7 seems like she is into athletes.How can you know somebody's values ,if you don't get to know them more intimately,it takes time to know that for sure,it's easy to say what values you have to someone but later on to be proven wrong.Somebody's past isn't always telling of who he is now and while julian was with adriana you don't hear any of the stuff that he used to do,just that one or both didn't wan't to commit.As far as i can tell only marko suppsosedly cheated on her,the rest didn't.I don't see any rumors that joe didn't treat her right or julian.Gisele gave brady a shot and it worked.For adriana it didn't but you can't tell it won't.Julian had a picture taken from a frat girl after a one nighter,and a baby with another,matt doesn't have that.Probably telling that julian didn't wan't to make it more serious since he just had a baby,yet tom did with gisele.Again i don't see it working out with mat unless she will move to new york which i suspect she won't.

@Sophie20it is gossip without any evidence.They call him bad boy because he dates models.There is no mugshot,baby out of a one night stand,just a dating history,and that he used to be really hyped on the mets,had a big ego and a big sallary and they say now he is on the down after surgery.I don't think adriana is making a good choice in him for what i have stated earlier but it is her life,and to find the right guy to marry and have babies,you need to date and meet someone to figure that out

@Sophie20the question is if it is too fast.what bad reputation does matt have other than dating models and playing baseball? And she has said she want's more babies,she is going to be 36,it will take a while for her to figure out if she want's to marry someone and have another baby.

@Souled-OutYou can spend time with kids and have your own life.You wouldn't have said that if she was in a long-term relationship.She makes around 9 mil for the past couple of years,she doesn't need to constantly get work.You have a genuine concern for her,she is 35 not 20,she got divorced 3 years ago,had been with 2 guys since then,how is that abnormal?.There is no right way in relationships ,wether be casual or serious,it's what works for both parties.You said she looked great at the oscars and events after the break up.Now you see one bad photo out of a video and you think she is depressed.You think you know what is best for her based on certain rules that you follow but not evreybody follows them,maybe not even her.She will find what is best for her eventually.

And she should never listen to her fans or haters(people that never got to know her other than an autograph signing and believe they know what is best for her without knowing the details of her love life,we are just speculating based on pictures and gossip).That is weak.She should know what's best for her,and she should only listen to close friends and close family.Whatever rules you have on certain stuff , they don't apply to evreyone since i have given you examples where your rules don't apply.Aggree to dissagree but don't force your rules as if they are set in stone for evreyone especially at 35 where you are more then mature to figure stuff out.There is no perfect path for finding love again,you figure that out on your own.You act like a sex tape is out or her making a comitment to isis.This is not a doomsday scenario you claim it is

Your opinion as well.An accurate conclusion in your opinion and you don't know the details of her relationships because they keep them mostly private.That is gossip not news,news have facts supporting them.Someones details of their love life you will never truly know,only the break ups and what comes after.The gossip that she wen't to biebers house with no proof whatsoever is false yet it was evreywhere.There is no rule on being 35 and what time you should have after a break up,whatever time you feel is right and a month is enough in my opinion at that age.You have different views on her values then me,nothing more to say. She dated 3 men including matt after her divorce was filed in 2014,that is not desperate.This might be just a thing untill he will start baseball season in 2 weeks.She just needs to keep this casual for a while and not invest emotionaly into it.

@morpheu i am not sugarcoating anything.What is being a devout christian,being confident and family values has anything to do with moving too fast in your opinion.Her kids love her, looking at the cards they ocassionally write,she spends time at home mostly with them apparently.She is 35,not a little kid who doesn't know what she want's.A month after a break up at the age of 35 is not fast.That she focuses more on her carreer and kids and less on boyfriends means she will break up a lot untill that ONE will come along.You know what you wan't at that age.If this guy will be worth it(i don't think it will last)then all this will be worth it to her.I have been following her for a couple of years and looked into her past(only model who i have ever done because she seems different then most of the others).My sister moved on from someone after a month another and she still is with him after 5 years.I met another girl that did the same but she married that one and still are together. P.S.:the general stigma that women who move on fast are weak and men who do it are womanizers is not always the case P.S 2:You obviously have a different view on what she preaches then me or her.Spending QUALITY time with her kids matters most to me then just being home at the same time as them,i didn't see her puting julian over the kids or even rumors that she introduced him to them.A christian can also be someone that has a good soul and a good heart,don't see how relationships matter in christianity other then cheating.This doesn't scream being weak and not confident

At least this guy doesn't have a baby with someone who he had a one night stand lol.Condoms are rare when your rich i guess.Couldn't find bad stuff about him other that he dated other models.I hope she knows what she want's from a man lol,after a divorce and that she saved herself for him,you kinda are thrown off what you would wan't in a man i guess.That's why i am slow to make a definitive opinion about this because ,virgin untill mariage and then divorce because of maybe cheating can throw you off on what you wan't in a man and how you should approach a date and not rush things(at least that's the way i see it)

@hermanwhere did i say you weren't?if you are the one that called her pathetic,a bad mother,desperate,sleeps with many men and hopes her kids won't follow her then yes.Calling someone that you never met and hasn't done anything to you all those names is not what a fan does.What hypocrisy?posts about having a good soul and heart above all else?posts about men respecting women?posts about women being strong or independent?What you see on the news is someone who moved on to somebody else (too quickly to some and not to others).Did she said or posted what is the time period between a break up and the next one?.When she will forfeit her carreer for someone,ignore her kids for someone then i will call her not independent and strong.Moving on so quick can also be a sign of being strong or to others not P.S.:her not caring about those rumors can also be a sign of strengh.If she defends one stupid rumor she will have to defend all of them or people will asume they are true if she doesn't respond in the future.I never saw famous people caring about what fans are saying about their relationships P.S.2:her publicist said they broke up before the oscars so that would be between superbowl (where she was seen with him)and oscars.So that would be between a month or a couple of weeks.That's a good amount of time to recover from somebody that you just dated and barely saw in those 6 something months.My opinion that this athlete is a mistake because they will break up(see what i wrote earlier)

If a fan consider this as something bad then sure

This won't do anything to her carreer,She will continue to put her carreer first like always and contracts will still come in because of her IG following and being one of the most if not the most famous vs model ever.And that is not control,that is the outcome of her being emotionaly atached too much.Controll is when she does what the other want's which i don't see the case

she should never care what her fans say about her dating life or anything else really,but what herself thinks,friends and familly.What do you mean by control over her?,that she becomes emotional about it, i aggree but what control?

some on IG weren't,one that claimed was a real fan called her desperate,pathetic and a bad mother,that is not a true fan.There are also people defending her there and on daily mail.People were happy because of the julian break up because they wan't somebody that looks just as good as her to be with her,when you don't know somebody personally you just go for the looks most of the time.She doesn't always go for looks(marko).This is just speculation anyway,for her sake,i hope it turns out great but i don't see how this takes away from her being independent and strong.She was a lot of money,great carreer,she can take care of herself just fine alone,think she might be demanding a lot from these athletes to be more serious ,to move to miami when they play in another city(i suspect that being the case since it didn't last with julian and she was making efforts to make good with her mother).When and i hope not she is seen drunk ,on drugs ,then i will call it critical.Now it maybe something or nothing

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/usshowbiz/video-1430771/Matt-Harvey-Adriana-Lima-caught-kissing-Miami.html she looks fine to me.Take a picture out of a video and it seems that way but it's not always the case.What mess are you reffering to ?Julian? If it is ,she bounced back after marko and joe.She will be fine.Her real friends and family need to step in if that is the case.

her familly is in brazil right?mostly i saw her cousin in miami.Maybe she moved on quicker because of the relationship being long distance and that none of them wanted to move to another city,maybe it was easier for her to move on.At the end of the day her instagram subscribers and vs status makes her carreer what it is,nowadays its the norm in fashion anyway.Most follow her because she is a model and from what she posts on IG,most don't really care about her relationship status.Haters will always pounce on somebody no matter who he or she is when it comes to dating,remember when she was with julian and a lot were calling her going for the money and fame when she had more money and more fame.I don't measure respect for someone based on their dating past.I did say that women are usually more vulnerable after a break up so it would also make sense if she moved on quickly if the guy knew what words to say,i doubt that she made the first move.Maybe this will end well or not,time will tell.I think they will break up because she won't move to new york and he is with the mets so he won't move to miami.I do wonder what her friends and family are telling her.And do understand after a divorce and 2 breakups she is very vulnerable,you need friends and family to guide you there,no matter how strong or independent you are.Either she is over him or that she is vulnerable and saw matt being the savior.I hope it ends well for her

It's not like she was together 24/7 with julian because more pictures of them would eventually come out and yet very phew are out there.To me it is ok to move on,if she is over him then why not.Her publicist said that conflicting schedules made them broke up,so maybe the question of will you move here with me to make this more serious came about and julian said no because he is with the pats and adriana said no too.And i stick by my comment,this doesn't make her a bad mother to me.She will spend more time with matt now because the mets have a training facility in florida and it's the offseason,so after the 2nd of april he is back in new york and long distance will probably not work out AGAIN.I wished she just moves to LA or New York but she probably won't because she doesn't wan't to move her kids around at a young age and that she likes the weather in miami and privacy since not many paparazzi are there.And if someone is being trashed for something,it does not make the trash right,she is being called far worse then what was written here.I don't question if you are a fan of her,i know you are,it is about what you think she did wrong or right here.I don't think it's wrong that she moved on.The staple that women who move on fast because they are desperate or don't care about their kids is not always true to me.

@yemen You probably have a different pedestal for her than i do.As i said i don't see anything bad with her moving on if she truly is over julian.Again i don't know her,i don't know if she is over him or maybe matt is her knight in shining armour but after a break up a woman is usually more vulnerable ,and she strikes me as one that puts a lot of emotion into alot of stuff including relationships.Maybe this matt guy will be more serious than the other,who knows.I made a point that somebody made her a slut on instagram because of all of this.I failed to mention that in my post @Souled-Out-well yes i aggree that she makes bad decisions relationship wise(i made ,many people do,it's life) but that does not make her a bad person or a bad mother.I think she met julian mostly when her schedule alowed it to be(when she had work in new york).I mean long distance doesn't work out most of the times no matter how gorgeous or rich you are.Both parties need to have patience with each other(a lot of it) and since he is with the pats he would not have moved to miami so she needed to make the move.And because of long distance and not seeing each other that much it was kinda obvious to me that it would never work since she has said in an interview i think that she doesn't have a lot of patience.And with this matt guy is with the new york mets.I again think that this won't last long.Athletes don't always have a say when they wan't to play or to what team unless you are a superstar but most athletes wan't wives or girlfriends that usually stay with the kids while they are on the road playing or dedicate time to them when they are home Gisele and Tom are a rare exception.It doesn't matter how much time she spends with the kids but is that quality time and from IG and what her kids do like write cards for her ,i think that she is spending quality time with them.I also saw that she doesn't have that many hobies other that going out from time to time with friends(working out is for her carreer right now).She mostly stays with the kids,she did say a lot of times that she is behind on tv series and that she used to paint a long time ago ,so by not having many hobbies at home and what her kids write to her makes me think that she is a good mother.And to your own words "I don't mind her taking time to be with a guy as long as its atleast worth it and serious".Well time will tell on that.I just hope she will find someone and be happy.Focusing a lot on her carreer and kids at the age of 35 makes it difficult to say the least,but maybe she will get lucky.

this is my first time posting here,i was following adriana for some years but i do think it's weird how you judge someone on their personal relationships.She isn't strong because she moved on?Was she the one that made the first move on him?You will probably never know for sure when it comes to celebrity relationships.To me it doesn't make her suddenly a slut or a bad person like you all are pointing out.You don't know her,you don't know what she may or may not be going through,if she is very naive when it comes to men(i personally believe that).I follow her because of her looks and how she acts and that a lot of people that met her say great things about her,rarely a bad story about her.I do think women as well as men can do what they wan't after a break up as long as it doesn't involve alcohol or drugs or other bad behavior.I never called a woman a slut for moving on ,just because they kiss doesn't mean they have sex.I have met couples that kissed but after a year they decided to have sex.Her publicist said that she and julian broke up before the oscars if i am not mistaken,so i don't consider this fast (although i don't know when did they hook up,maybe it was today or a week ago).Anyway hope you don't take this message the wrong way:)