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  1. ^^

    You friend is called Helen as well? Lol, I sure don't look like a beached whale at all!!

    hahahhhahahah! oh no! she doesn't look like a beached whale at all... neither do you! hahaha! she's the prettiest tallest thing... but i just like to make fun of my friends! hahahah! thats how i show love! hahaha! i just call her whale coz she eats A LOT!!!

  2. With what I have read about Mathias, I have to be on the same boat as you. But then again, you are right, you wouldn't know what he is really like unless you actually know him very well. So what we could all do is to have an idealistic version of him in our head. But to be honest, with or without camera, I believe Mathias is just as genuine and as nice :)

    The ideals that the society portrays are soo hard to live up to. A while ago the whole "size 0 debate" made people think "why would people want to be as thin as that?" But then again, you will always have people who secretly wants to be just as skinny, even if it means purging the food out or starving yourself to death. Me and my friends are seriously not in the popular gang, infact, we are quite the opposite but we have a connection and we love a good rave now and then. But we have never been to the club before! Ahaha, how ironic? but I don't think that going out every Saturday to get pissed is my thing either, I don't drink, smoke or do drugs. Some people might think that I am boring but to be honest, I don't want to die young.

    And I really hope that Mathias will not run away from the cameras in the coming fashion weeks.

    To be able to tell what kind of person a guy really is, is how he corresponds with his co-workers and friends and so on and like you said camera or no camera in Mathias's businiess i think he has handled everything and everyone in a very considerate, well-mannered way and that's enough to tell us otherwise so im quite gratified to know that he is a respectable person, in his interview they asked him what he wanted to strive for and he said to become an 'adult' so i think in many ways he's maturing in a very delectable way.

    yes the idealistic society that it portrays are hard to live up to especially in terms of the fashion industry, they expect full on perfection and im not happy with it myself because this is the kind of example they are exposing to all girls and woman of all ages, i think for me what makes a classy woman is a confident woman....

    a friend of mine was telling me about a woman who attended a party whom she spotted a really tall blonde handsome guy in the crowd and she instantly told her friend about him, she wanted to know his martial status and things like that. It turned out he was single, so she decided to give it a shot at this particular guy and get to know him, all of a sudden she mistakenly noticed he was looking at her across the room ....and when she tried to approach him it turned out he wasn't even interested in ther.. he was looking past her keen on another lady behind her. The woman he was interested in didn't come as close as looking gorgeous to the woman who was really interested in him. He noticed how confident she was, the details like how she held her champagne glass and how she smiled and laughed with her friends. I think sometimes it's not always about how you look, it's about feeling great in your own skin, feeling confident is key to anything.

    ....I don't know about every day life, i think it's just a matter of choosing the right people to hang out with but on the other side you will constantlty get judgemental people outside the lines you normally hang out with . I don't think it's fair to judge people in the first place because only they know their own pain and renunciation to begin with unless you really get to know a person.

  3. I am really touched too by the story, I just wish that there are more stories like that. You shouldn't put people on a pedastall if they are famous or good-looking or whatever, it would prevent you from knowing that person fully because you would literally worship them.

    I agree, when you know that people are going to envy you for something, somehow you feel like you should almost immediately self-deprecate EVERYTHING you do so that you will be on the same level as them and be accepted. I don't get it, but sometimes I do it because if I didn't, I would feel bad :( And its almost more difficult if they are your friends or family. They do, in a way, kill your dreams or ambitions but on the other hand, they might be trying to make you see the reality so that we wouldn't end up being heartbroken or something. That is how I see it anyway :p But with Mathias, who wouldn't want to meet him? All my girlfriends LOVE him!

    Yes i totally agree that you shouldn't put other people on a pedestall regardless of successful status, like you said it would prevent people from meeting people like Mathias someone as extraordinarily amazing as him, and especially those you can really relate to on so many levels.

    It's really hard thinking about people who envy your success because then it wouldn't be fair on yourself to limit yourself when everyone feels the need you should stay on the SAME stepping block as they are, i think if you had immense talent and potential to exceed in anything you want in life , the question you really have to ask yourself is are you going to be content with yourself having to worry about people who have certain expectations on you.. i think it's really about taking control in your life and what makes you happy , also to disremember the people who want less of you. Parents for example try and see the postive outlook on the things you want to persue in life so it's that they try to wake you up and see the reality trying to avoid the process of seeing their loved ones hurt so i completey understand that a 100%.

    Hmm not many of my girlfriends know much about Mathias, they joke around with me and say "who is my latest admiration , perhaps another french singer" lol...To me Mathias is more an appreciation and respect than admiration i think i really respect mathias, i like to think the the idea of keeping him secretive is more respectful, because nowadays girls talk unseemly about men, you know how it is.

  4. She was exceptionally gorgeous in Casino Royale! :)

    I couldn't agree more! The way she was speaking, oh man, she purrs! Shame she had to die at the end though.... :(

  5. Oh wow, looks like you and Mathias are quite compatible then! Lol :D

    I guess I have always been different, I don't see the point in conforming. Well, actually, I did try to when I was 14. Everyone in my year started to listen to some real punk and rock music, having casual sex and smoking weed. I once contemplated smoking weed but then I didn't at the end. Looking back, I am proud that I didn't conform into one of those girls because then I would have lost my true self. The interviews of Mathias do give us insight into his personality and I like the way how he didn't turn out to be this arrogant model. I can relate to him that way in that both us don't see the point in being like everyone else. But yeah, word interviews aren't enough! WE NEED MORE TV INTERVIEWS OF HIM...AMEN!

  6. People do want you to settle for less because they are afraid that you will get something better than them. I don't tend to let that annoy me because at the end of the day, why should I lay boundaries on who I want to meet in life? I really think that if you are not intimidated by the person and treat them like a normal human being, you will have a bigger chance of a friendship or something more. I really like that story you told me, its so sweet. I seriously don't think otherwise, you never know who you will meet!
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