If it is then so be it   You do what you think is best and I will do what I think is best   I am not going to convince you that I am right b/c I am not you nor do I know what is right for you or anyone else  With that said, I am going to continue to be me and you could continue to be you     The only person you need to answer to at the end of the day is yourself. If you are being true to yourself, being the best person you can be, doing what you think is right, and wiling to live &