Daniela

mmm According to the creater of the topic, this topic is not made for me. I don't have healthy apitite anymore, It's been almost 2 years since I ate with healthy apitite, now I eat because I need it, but foods makes me throw up. Vitamins? *pukes all over the place*

1. That I want to be smarter, than everybody.

2. That I'm always too kind to everybody, I shoul be more rude

3. That I love buying Vogues and all my money goes away

1.- Changeeeee cuz everybody's gonna hate you for that!!

2.- Even when you're too kind

3.- I get the same but to with Vogue,... 5 years working and I still don't have a car <_<

I've been hating another thing about me for the last 7 months... orthodontics

Hey, before all you ladies go bashing someone looking like that [pink polo dude] It's actually those sorts of people I seem to see the girls flock around.

WHAT'S wrong with those shoes?

They're annoying... I bet you own one of those!

How much?

Admit it... we dislike you anyway.

WHAT'S wrong with those shoes?

They're annoying... I bet you own one of those!

Everything he's wearing, using to groom his shit with, or doing. No, just no

!

And don't forget the "I'm your daddy" loook in his eyes <_<

I saw a lady yesterday dressed in high fashion clothes, jewelry and a lot else... and this shoes... if you can call them shoes!

I feel thiner today... I guess it's because I wore baggy clothes <_<

That is really hard. I mean the looks of a person is normally the first thing you get to see and therefore it's the first impression. I think it's so sad because people can be so judgemental and shallow. My friends has also mentioned that they would never date a guy who isn't attractive but I mean come on I think it's so juvenile. I must say I find it hard too but at least I try to not judge the book by it's cover. Get to know the person first because in the end it's really not about the looks.

You're friend will end up loving and getting married to a really unattractive guy, she may write it and it will happen. Never say never.

Great, Smart Ass.

I never said I was offender or something.... I don't understand why you come up with this whole statement like somebody was hurt or I was pointing at you! Chill out... <_<

Why are you calling me a smart ass?

I didn't suggest or think that you were offended.

I didn't come up with anything like somebody was hut or you were pointing at me.

What I did do, or what I tried to do was to highlight why I, in your eyes, misunderstood your initial post that TooBoku and I responded to.

Why are you telling me to chill out? In that previous post, I wasn't being defensive or disagreeable. There were no exclamation marks, bold or capital letters, or emotions or text emotions of negativity. I am not charged up or mad. I am perfectly chilled, calm and composed when I wrote that. I was just explaining to you how your post reads and using this to point out why you think I might have misunderstood it.

No need to go around calling me a smart ass when I was just trying to point something out to you.

The details and explanation of how wrong I was it's Brilliant, that's why Smart Ass came across.

I love it.. Give it to her.

You guys misunderstood!

I wrote that I never felt hungry, not that I wasnt eating to loose weight.

If I misunderstood, it was entirely your fault.

First off, you started by saying:

This is what upsets me when I lose weight for diets.

I'm not doing any diet actually

Two contradicting statements right there.

You continue...

it's just that I never feel hungry and I only eat lunch.. the half of it, and the rest of the dayy I only drink apple juice. The issue? I'm loosing weight, but I'm loosing my boobs and ass too. I can't really control this because I only wanna loose the belly and not my boobs and ass, and the time to do excercise is NULE.

Here, you indicate, or you did a fantastic (no sarcasm) job of indicating that the issue for you was that you wanted to lose weight by reducing your waistline but you were also losing your ass and breasts. Before you mention this, you highlight the very reason you're going the wrong way about reducing your waistline.

It reads entirely like you were not eating to lose weight. I know you mentioned you were not hungry, but its not healthy to have nothing all day except a measly portion of lunch and apple juice, simply because you're not hungry.

Great, Smart Ass.

I never said I was offender or something.... I don't understand why you come up with this whole statement like somebody was hurt or I was pointing at you! Chill out... <_<

Nevermind

I'm on vacations right now, but my schedule tends to be ful all them time!

I wake up at 5.00 to be at work at 8.00 until 17.00

I run to College and I'm there at 18.00 until 22.00 to get home at 22.30.

I'm gonna go to the doctor, but honestly, I never take the treatment, I hate taking pills but well... I will have to!

This is what upsets me when I lose weight for diets.

I'm not doing any diet actually, it's just that I never feel hungry and I only eat lunch.. the half of it, and the rest of the dayy I only drink apple juice. The issue? I'm loosing weight, but I'm loosing my boobs and ass too. I can't really control this because I only wanna loose the belly and not my boobs and ass, and the time to do excercise is NULE.

This is the most stupid and unhealthy way to go about losing weight.

You need to combine healthy eating (which also means eating healthy portions, not measily, insufficiant portions) and excercise.

Drinking apple juice all day? Can't be too good for the teeth, haha. Try water.

If you want to lose the belly then work on that particular part of the body through tailored excercises.

Don't be too optimistic about time scale. Most people assume they'll see results in weeks - you won't.

If it has something to do with your frame/build, then you'll always be like that, so attempting unhealthy methods to lose this is futile.

To add to that, apple juice isn't the kind of calorie intake you want either. It's great as an ad hoc to your diet, especially in the morning or when you're low in energy but it's almost completely sugar. In a 250mL serving of apple juice, you could expect about 114 calories. 98 of those would be sugar and the rest just other carbs that are still pretty high on the GI scale anyway. Instead snack on real apples. They're bulky and tend to fill you up with half the calories. The added bonus is fibre.

Also... eating habits like that can influence the formation of stomach ulcers. You're better off eating MORE meals throughout the day and making them smaller. When you sleep, your metabolism basically shuts down and it starts back up again when you eat breakfast. The secret to having a high metabolism is to not let it shut down again which usually happens when you gor for more than 3 hours without eating.

Try something like this (play with the times a little but in general you want 5-7 smaller meals a day):

7:00AM - whole wheat bagel and orange juice (whole wheat bagel = protein & slow acting carbs for sustained energy through the day, OJ = quick shot of energy & vitamins)

9:30AM - trail mix bar (ALWAYS a good snack)

12:00PM - tuna on salad (tuna = protein & omega 3, salad is ALWAYS good)

2:30PM - baby carrots (vitamins & low in calories)

5:00PM - banana (another quick hit of energy before the drive home... and potassium!)

7:30PM - baked salmon and asparagus (salmon is a different mix of protein than tuna, you'll even get a little bit of creatine. asparagus is ALWAYS good too)

That might seem like a lot but if you keep the portions small you'll be set. You body will also become a calorie incinerator because you're metabolism is going all day without stopping. Some excersises like pushups and squats will make up for the lost boob/butt fat with some muscular support. Having muscluar definition does NOT make a woman look masculine. Throw a nice brisk morning jog to that and you're set.

You guys misunderstood!

I wrote that I never felt hungry, not that I wasnt eating to loose weight.

Thanks for the tips anyway!

Eres - Cafe Tacuba

I know guys love girls confidence too.

What guys love is not having to constantly argue with girls and tell them they're not fat when they're clearly not.

What's nice is to see girls, particularly ones you know, tucking into a nice, good sized meal without any talk about getting fat ect.

Thank you!

I know, right?

You like sharing a whole pizza with girls, I love it too!!

I like it too. Once I dated this guy who was always excercising and he never ate McDonalds with me... NEVER! He said that it was not healthy at all...n WTF?

I truly believe in the power of self-Confidence,

I think you could be gorgeous but if your selfconfidence in underground, then everyone will see you the same way you see yourself.

And the same happens when you love yourself and you show it.

I personaly like guys who has a good level of confidence, guys who know and are sure of what they're sayin and what they are! I love it, I find it quite sexy! But I hate it when they push it farther and their confidence starts being ridiculous (this happens more in us, the girls).

3 years ago I was pretty... I had no confidence, and no guy would ever ever look at me like that. When I decided to chance and etc... I started accepting me and my body just the way it was everything started to change for better. I know guys love girls confidence too.

So I believe is a key to feel good..

and REALLY SEXY.

Omg, 3 years and 25 pages later...

and still no first kiss!

Thanks. lol.

I'll probably end up like Drew Barrymore in "Never Been Kissed" at the rate I'm going! But hey, I'm waiting for the right time and the right guy.

Maybe next time?

I've never been kissed either. I wonder if i'm ever gonna end up like Drew in that movie...i mean...get a kiss...obviously not with Michael Vartan :wub2:

Haha... we're on the same boat. lol. I'm not THAT worried though. It's not that big of a deal to me. When the time comes, it'll be perfect... I hope. lol.

That's maybe because the kisses you've missed would have not been the greatest one jeje

I don't remember if I've replied... but mine was when I was 18, with a guy I met 3 weeks before and use to work with me by then. I gotta say he's a great great kisser... shame it only happened a couple of times,, I don't know if he noted it was my first kiss cuz he said "I love your kisses!" and I was like "ah?" jajjaa

than don't try to loose weight... believe me your boobs will look like when a mother has a baby!!!you'll need push up bras

I'm not trying!

It's been two days since I'm ing normally.. thank God!

This is what upsets me when I lose weight for diets.

I'm not doing any diet actually, it's just that I never feel hungry and I only eat lunch.. the half of it, and the rest of the dayy I only drink apple juice. The issue? I'm loosing weight, but I'm loosing my boobs and ass too. I can't really control this because I only wanna loose the belly and not my boobs and ass, and the time to do excercise is NULE.

I've been thinking this over for a while, and come to th conclusion that though my entire statement about how personality is THE ONLY thing that matters, it's simply not true.

I think the two things co-exist. I've met gorgeous people, girls that were as pretty as Jessica Alba and guys that match whatever poster boy you have put up as the ultimate fantasy. Some were nice, others weren't. And what really surprised me is how much their appearance is influenced by their personality.

I remember this beautiful guy (yes, beautiful was the only word for him) and I wanted to like him (heh, as did the 20 other gals working in the store) but he was just so arrogant and irritating, I went cold on him within a minute. He suddenly looked very different from the way he did when he walked in. I don't know if I'm making sense.

It also works the way around. Who else has grown attracted to people they didn't notice at first? Like Q's example, I'm betting there are many more out there.

Oh well...

For me, Personality os more important. However... I've never dated or kissed ugly boys.. NEVER! It's not that I push "ugly" guys away, It's just that... I first get impressed by their looking! And then I find their personality: If it's good-looking but brainless or lack of personality, I don't like it, I think "It's a shame!". But my cases have been guys with both looking and personality and not because I've wanted to.

BUT... they've been idiots <_<

Yes, completely repulsive.

I can't stand watching 15 year old girls crying because Daddy said he was not gonna give her a car as a present. I bet that those girls are totally not thankful to their dads.

Bitches

I have my tickets for BSB concert next February 27th, 2009!!!

I'd shut him out of my life, even if I loved him.

haha, easier said than done I think... especially if you're a girl.

Sad but True!

But think about you.. or do what you want, but beware the consequences.

I think if I loved someone really much i could depending on the circumstances take him back and forgive him, I guess.

So I think it's up to you if you say I love him so much and he truely regrets and is repentant - I can forgive him and trust him again.

Or if you come to the term of saying I can never trust this person again.

Listen to your heart. I am sure you will make the right choice for you

(and never forget: even if you make a wrong choice at some point - it's always a chance to learn and grow)

But then, the confidence is never the same. You could forgive him, but then, when you look at him, you remember the other girl. That is what happens with me.. and I rather ten thousand times going throught this phase of pain, than being with him, feeling like he's not the same, neither am I, and then, suffering again.

I would tell you to stop it right now.

I only take care of my nails once a day: on sats, I iron and paint them with some gloss, and that's it! I like keeping them long and that is how it works for me.