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Black women and marriage...


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1) there are more single women than ever before. how do you explain that?

Diva complex

2) this isn't just about laquisha (who needs to marry leroy--instead she is treated like a "sperm receptacle" by the leroy's of her community). professional black women don't get married either, and they cannot afford to date thugs. they also outnumber professional black men, so it's not like black men can't find a black woman on their level to marry.

Define "professional black men", from what I've read, a fireman, police officer or blue collar worker wouldn't qualify.

black women stopped getting married long before we became "fat." we also wore afros in the 70s and that didn't stop the black community from continuing to deteriorate. lol. black women's weight, hair choices, whatever the hell you can come up with, are NOT what's driving the marriage crisis. for the last time, when the numbers get as high as they have, it's beyond mere individual choices or flaws. see #1.

Black women in general wouldn't hesitate to be fowl mouthed to black man, whether at home or in public. You can say it started from the 1970's hence why those blaxploitation films always showed loud mouth women, and in reality women saw this and continue emulate.

As for the weight, hair thing.......COME ON look where you are. I forum that has thousands of people that praise and idolize beauty. Not many are black women. Alot of white women aspire to look like these models. Yet a lot of black women look a mess. Lets be real here..... MEN CARE ABOUT LOOKS!

3) no one points out black women's flaws because no one cares enough about us to do it (yes, i'm pretty pissed at the black community's hatred and disregard for its females). the only time our flaws are pointed out is in the context of how we are failing black men (because only they matter) or how we don't measure up to non-black women.

It's not because know one cares, otherwise why are all the Tyra, Oprah show quick to point out the falls of men. Either they think black women are innocent victims OR more money can be made from black womens insecurities.

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